Vagus nerve stimulation and pain

I've been having a hard time eliminating. I don't have the feelings that I have to go anymore. I just have belly pain. Yesterday my daughter gave me an enema and I still took forever trying to go. Today I tried and tried and caused myself dizziness and chest pain just trying to go. I'm taking softeners every day twice a day but they are useless. I just cry with the pain in my pelvic floor. All I get is nerve pain and nothing works. My daughter got me some glycerine suppositories. Maybe tomorrow I can start with them. I don't understand how nothing is working right. By the time I know I have to void I wet myself. My daughter keeps me in incontinent pads for those accidents. I'm so frustrated that I can't stop the tears. Anyone had this problem. Did it ever get right again?