drugs and love

South Africa
August 14, 2012 9:10am CST
I have been with this wonderful man for 5 yrs and we got engaged a month ago....My heart was broken last night when he revealed that he took drugs. All the hope of the future and dreams of a happy ever after is washed away.... His father died last year and him and his sister fought over the house(mom died a few years earlier due to cancer)-he had a rough year losing his house, father and you can say his relationship with his sister. So last year he turned to drug-tik.... he told me about it and i decide then to stay with him on condition that he goes to councelling and sort out his hurt and anger...but yet there has been instances where we fought over these so called friends that he visits that initially introduced him into drugs and last nite he drops a bombshell-he took the drug on saturday eve what do I do in this instance? Im so confused...what should i do?stay or go
1 response
• India
14 Aug 12
Hi friend, welcome to mylot. sad to hear about this, try your maximum to change him. If he is in true love with you, he will follow all your words, take him to the counseling and try your maximum to change him. All the best