what do people really want

Uganda
August 18, 2012 1:45am CST
I first gained weight and they were all like you look so bad with that weight and some said that i was pregnant and i didn't care after 16months i got sick and lost the weight it also became a problem my friend told me that she walked into a salon and they were talking about me that the dog started barking (HIV positive) do you really understand them because i don't.
1 person likes this
4 responses
@jalucia (1435)
• United States
18 Aug 12
Some people have nothing better to do than talk, talk and talk. As you grow older, the wonderful thing is that you begin to value your happiness above other people's shallow opinion of you. You do what feels good for you, and you will see that you are the better person for it.
• United Arab Emirates
18 Aug 12
I agree! All you have to do is to ignore them.
@Raine38 (9117)
• United States
18 Aug 12
Whatever we do, people will always have something to say. And no matter how hard you try, you will never please everybody. It is better to just ignore them and do whatever makes you happy and whatever's good for you. Their opinions don't really matter; it won't make you less of a person if you don't fit to their standards. You're far oFf better than them anyway so don't go to their level.
18 Aug 12
There are people who just try to project their own perception of things about themselves on others. They conveniently try to shift their unpleasant experience in life on to others. But when doing that do not work for them they again try to do that differently. You have got to value your own opinions about yourself. Do what pleases you and that you want to enjoy.
• United States
18 Aug 12
That was wicked and cruel and I would get in thier azz for that. I would say over all ignore the people who have nothing to say better than that. I know that is something I would not play with. people know who to mess with and who to bother. it would be a shock to all of them if you went out and got even with all of them. they are just wrong. good to know you lost some weight. I am trying to lose ten pounds. I gained 15 nd lost 5 already. I want a flat stomach again.