fake people

Romania
August 20, 2012 1:51pm CST
over the years I developed a 6th sense when it comes to fake people. I simply can't stand them. why on earth would you come to me and pretend to be my friend and on the others side talk all kind of ugly things about me. I'm the kind of poeple who when I don;t like someone I can't pretend ...
4 responses
@Raine38 (8909)
• United States
21 Aug 12
I also can't stand these kind of people. Total waste of time and they can also hurt our feelings. I've been crashed and burned a couple of times, and of course I've learned my lesson. It will always be better to have a few, real friends than to have many and fake ones.
• Romania
21 Aug 12
totally afree. i tried to explain this to a friend of mine and he said that I was crazy. that he's happy with many friends. he will see how many of those are for real
@STOUTjodee (3321)
• United States
13 Sep 12
Totally agree with you swissheart. I was always taught that if you don't have anything nice to say about someone then don't say anything at all. Those people that talk about you behind your back are probably insecure with themselves. When I'm around people like that I don't say much. I guess those people are why there's the saying, "with friends like that, who needs enemies."
• Canada
12 Sep 12
I know how you feel...I can't stand those people I'd rather tell that person tell me that they have a problem with me than pretend that they are friend... My husband used to be friends with a guy i did not like only because i didn't approve of the things that he talks about or his behavior...It was hard to hold back my feelings because i know he seems proud of his behavior and i didn't think he was going to change... I wouldn't let them get to you because you can't change right now..I would worry more about yourself..Just ignore them ..the moment you let them that they were having an impact on you the more they are going to do it...As the saying goes if you want to change the things happen is to kill them with kindness... Vanessa
• Jacksonville, Florida
20 Aug 12
I cannot stand people that do this. My husband had a friend that did this. As soon as he found out what kind of person this guy was he will not speak to him anymore. With this guy I think he wanted to be accepted by everyone so he thought that is the way to do it. Too bad all he did was lose a darn good friend. Too bad for him. I will not surround myself with people that do this. It is hurtful and dramatic. Not for me...I am a good friend to others so I would be super hurt if someone did that to me.