Feeling Bad

Philippines
August 20, 2012 9:40pm CST
I feel very bad right now. Due to the fact that my brother said something that struck me. It hurt me a lot. I want to cry right now but if I do, that would signify my defeat. :( Somehow, what he said was half true but I can't accept it. It's really hard to accept what he said. I really want to hate him for that. But in the end, I cannot possibly do it for he is my brother after all. I love my brother. :(
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@Ladybugs (404)
• Philippines
21 Aug 12
Hello there. Don't be too sad about that. That really happens to siblings. Sometimes, I could also hear some negative remarks from my sisters. At times, I'm also hurt and struck just like what happened to you but I just learn how to forgive, or should I say, forget the bad things that happened before. Maybe, your brother was only able to express what he wanted to say. At least, you were able to know what was on his mind. Maybe, right now, you're still feeling so bad about it. I think, when time will pass by, you would feel better again and just take what your brother told you as your challenge or reason to improve yourself more. Just be happy. That really happens in our lives, Being hurt by some people we love. Cheer up. Everything will be alright in time. Good day to you. :)
21 Aug 12
My friend, we may get told things by our brothers or sisters that we may find hurtful and unacceptable at times. In my experience, I have also gone through it sometimes. It would be too harsh to hate my brother in this situation. I am sure you love your brother very much, so does he you too. I can safely say he might have said things to you for your own benefits but for some reasons or others you find it hurtful for the time being.