Who would you choose your friend or your boyfriend or girlfriend?
By blinjk
@blinjk (617)
United States
August 21, 2012 10:33am CST
Choosing between your friend or your boyfriend or girlfriend is really so hard.When I was in high school, my friends always tell me that friends cannot be changed because they will always be there when you need them but boyfriend or girlfriend can be changed and there are lots of people that can take their place.That is right, but now that I am old.I have been thinking about that because I have choose to be with my boyfriend rather than my friends.At first, my friends did not understand me because I chose my boyfriend over them. They do not like my bf for me but what can they do, this is my life and I am old enough to know what is good and bad for me.After, months of not seeing and talking with my friends. I have decided to talk to them and now we are okay. Friends will really stay as long as they understand you.Me and my boyfriend is still together and I consider him as my closest and best friend. How about you guys?
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4 responses
@fantabulus (4000)
• India
22 Aug 12
We cant think about it that our friend will be boy or girl. Friendship is not making after thinking they made our friend automatically. May be both boy and girl may be one. I love to make lots of friends not matter that is boy or girl so I will not choose any single one.
@rogue13xmen13 (14403)
• United States
22 Aug 12
Depends on the situation. There are times where I might choose my friends over my boyfriend if I feel that my friends are right, but if I feel that my boyfriend is right, then I will choose him over them. I'm pretty diplomatic.
@doroffee (4222)
• Hungary
21 Aug 12
It depends on the situation.
If someone made me choose, I would choose the other one. So, if a friend made me choose, I'd choose my boyfriend. Because if someone truly loves me with spousely or friendly love, they would accept my decisions and would not hurt me by telling me I can't meet a person I like.
If it was a situation where I could only save one of them, I guess it would be my best friend. Because we've known each other for 9 years, and I know she knows me really well and will always be there for me. I've only been together with my boyfriend for 3 months. I mean, I'm so much in love with him, and he treats me gently, but I need some more time before I say I know him that well to know what to actually expect in a long-term relationship from him, then, I might choose him... who knows.
@snookms (53)
• United States
21 Aug 12
First of all I gotta say that all my friends get along well with my boyfriend. Anyway, if someone is a true friend to you they would not make you choose even if they don't like your boyfriend. If your boyfriend truly loves you he would not ask you to give up your friends. They have to agree to disagree. They just have to tolerate one another they don't have to like each other. If they both truly loved you then they would make an effort to get along and not cause you any worry. All you have to do is spend time with each one apart and on occasion when you have to spend time with both of them they need to act adult and get along. It's not that hard if they truly do care for you.
