I just think that you should not be late!

@freedang (320)
China
August 23, 2012 8:17pm CST
just now,my classmate ask me lend her a book.we already said that meet each other immediately.but when i gone downstairs,her didnt appear.so i gone back to my dorm and sended her a massage.then her said that her didnt think i would be so quick.I just feel so angry
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6 responses
uolyram
@uolyram (266)
• Philippines
24 Aug 12
Your friend is the one who needs the book therefore she has to be on time in getting it in the place you were to meet. The person who wants to borrow of your book should be the one to get it in your place, he needs it so it is for him to find time in going to you not you to wait.
freedang
@freedang (320)
• China
24 Aug 12
indeed,if you ask other people to do something ,it is never too much to make preparation.and we should put ourself in other people's shose. dont waste the time of others.of course ,dont waste the time of ourselfe too
Iriene88
@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
24 Aug 12
Being late is a very bad habit. If this habit continuous, it will become a negative attitude. In actual fact, being late and let someone wait for us is like we are 'stealing' someone else time. Time is precious, therefore we should not let someone wait for us, be punctual and considerate. I understand why you get angry. Perhaps you have to remind her and call her before you reach the meeting place to ensure she will be there on time.
freedang
@freedang (320)
• China
24 Aug 12
yeah...I hate those people who always thinking that other people could not be punctual so they dont on time.the only way is ask them to come eariler than other people.so they arrived on time...hahaha
rebel_woman06
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
24 Aug 12
It is better that you tell her honestly that you don't want to be late in an appointment, so she better be one too. It serves her right that it happened. At least now, she will learn a lesson.
thewonderboy
@thewonderboy (7501)
• India
24 Aug 12
Punctuality is the one of the quality of a good personality. It is really your friends mistake. it is your friend who needs the book from you, it's her need but still she so careless and she do not care the time. I think she should become some more care about the situations. So that she will become much better. Anyway it is your duty to turn your friend a good better one. All the very best
freedang
@freedang (320)
• China
24 Aug 12
Punctuality is a necessary habit in all public affirs.but it is a habit we formed from the very beginning and it is hard to change .anyway i will give a try.
ARIES1973
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
24 Aug 12
Hi freedang! Welcome to myLot! In the first place, why would you be the one to deliver the book that she will borrow. Let her pick it up in your place. If she needs it, she will be the one to make extra effort to get it. If I were you, I will not lend it to her anymore.
freedang
@freedang (320)
• China
24 Aug 12
I just cannt understand why she so careless.if you want someone to do something,it is proper that you should be earlier and do more preparation.
sunil76
@sunil76 (32)
• India
25 Aug 12
Hello friend,every human being is not the same.They think and act differently in the situation they are in.However,we always hope that the other person should think and behave or do something as we want him/her to be.As such we feel angry,dissapointed when things does not go our way.It is quite normal.Yes,when somebody promises or says that he will do something in time,then he must keep that promise.We should not be late for anything otherwise we will suffrer.Time management and punctuality in life is very essential.We should always try to stay ahead of time and respect other's time availability also.Thanks & regards.....