Love marriage or arrange marriage?

@sbrn11 (415)
India
August 30, 2012 7:47am CST
who do you think are more successful in marriage? People who had love marriage or people who had arrange marriage. For me it depends on the two people who got married. be it love or arrange if they love each other, can understand each other, are compatible with each other, loyal and faithful to each other, i think they will have a successful married life ahead? What are your opinion on marriage?
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@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
30 Aug 12
Hi, You are right. It depends upon the situation after marriage. There should be better understanding between the couple. They should have love care for each other. They should be supporting and encouraging in difficult times. So I think any marriage can be successful.
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@sbrn11 (415)
• India
30 Aug 12
i agree with you.
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@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
30 Aug 12
Love marriage for me. We are all entitle with our own opinion and decision that we have to respect. Some are favor of arrange marriage which lead to love in the end.
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@sbrn11 (415)
• India
30 Aug 12
Love will be there in both marriage, if not before marriage than after marriage, unless its a forced marriage.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
30 Aug 12
In my opinion, arrange marriage is good . I like arrange marriage . My marriage also an arranged marriage . Both love and arranged marriages are successful. But more successful marriage is arranged marriage. So I support to arranged marriage not love marriage.
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
15 Sep 12
Yes you are absolutely correct . And I agree with your words that never force to an arrange marriage .
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@sbrn11 (415)
• India
30 Aug 12
Arrange marriage is good, when both the partners have no problem, marrying each other and spending the life together. when both are happy with the relation. but it should not be a forced arrange marriage.
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@allknowing (130091)
• India
30 Aug 12
It makes no difference as success of a marriage depends on how it is handled after one gets married. Marriage is based on trust and understanding, giving space to each other and this is possible in both situations.
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@sbrn11 (415)
• India
30 Aug 12
yes, you are right. i have the same opinion as you.
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@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
1 Sep 12
I agree with you. It is the matter on how they would learn to understand each other that would make it a stronger relationship.
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• Thailand
30 Aug 12
i love to go with love marriage.. there's nothing more valuable than love.. i think if someone wants to try arranged marriage you simply try to go on a blind date. It's so similar.
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@sbrn11 (415)
• India
30 Aug 12
Love marriages are mostly preferred by people. but the problem is, if you really know that person, then its okay, but what if the person is not what he/she pretends to be. some people pretend to love you, when they are not much interested in you, may he/she loves your money, or whatever other reason may be Arrange marriage you inquire about that person before getting married.
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