What can men learn from women?

By Vin
Philippines
August 30, 2012 9:52am CST
Women tend to be very good at multitasking. They can do a lot of things at the same time. But for men, we only are good at doing a single thing at a time. From my experience, I am not good at multitasking. This is one thing we can learn from women. For you mylotters, what can men learn from women?
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13 responses
@celticeagle (112952)
• Boise, Idaho
30 Aug 12
Men could learn from women to feel more. Usually they are more visual people and not emotional. Men can learn to be more expressive and in the moment. They could learn to listen. And I think that men could learn to be more able to make quick and decisive decisions on the run.
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
Yeah. Some of these things you've mentioned are true. Men are more visual and not emotional. Men can learn to be more expressive in the moment. We could learn to listen. hehehehe Thanks for your response.
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@celticeagle (112952)
• Boise, Idaho
31 Aug 12
I thought those were the three most irrating.lol
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
Yeah. It can sometimes be irritating. But there's also good in that. Men should show more emotions to women to avoid misinterpretations. Pretending to be happy is not good. Pretending that everything is okay is not good.
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@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
oh yes how i wish you guys would be able to catch on that fast.. well for one men should really know when to detect when us women needs to be cuddled or be comforted.. i mean really some just cannot detect that lol we do not need to spell it our right away.. and men should also learn to be patient that we women can really stay for more than an hour taking a bath, fixing our hair lol..and doing make up and men should also learn that women can do all those tasks at once..do the laundry while cooking, while watching tv or while mylotting! my husband keeps on complaining when i do this and he just not learn to do that.
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
Sometimes we don't know how to sense women if they need to be cuddled and comforted. I am not good at reading the women's minds. Yeah. Women stay really longer in the shower and they take a lot of time preparing for a date or something.
@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
lol oh yes..well hug your gf as often so you would not have to worry when she need it.
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
Okay thanks!!!!!
@nupur123 (392)
• Hyderabad, India
2 Sep 12
Men need to learn many things from women such as patience, multi task,( doing lot of tjings such as handling house ,kids,jobs,outside shooping ) , last but the most important part is keeping every one together or we can say handling every person in the family with luv and togetherness . Which a man can never do as he only know to break the relationship.
• Philippines
2 Sep 12
Yeah. Women are known for being good at keeping relationships and togetherness. They are also good at multitasking.
@lampar (7597)
• United States
1 Sep 12
The list is too long to write all of them down in Mylot, so i decided to post just couple of them at the top of the list. Men can always learn from women to be more patient, responsible and nurturing, even though they may not be able to give birth to a child, they can always volunteer to pay for all the hospital expenses of their wives and should at least shoulder large portion of child care expenditure later. Never mind about multi-tasking, they can always leave that for their (woman) wife to handle. haha.....
• Philippines
1 Sep 12
Yeah. Women are more nurturing. They are good to the children and children tend to be more drawn closer to them.
@512771751 (1096)
• China
31 Aug 12
Yes, it is truely that men can only do one thing at a time. I think because of the brain. I think men don't need to learn from women, but they can do things together with women.
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
Yeah. They can do things with women and help each other.
@tipay26 (874)
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
there are many things men can learn from us women.most women are patient,loving,and honest.if men can learn those qualities from women,i think there will be no broken hearted girls or broken families :) men tend to get hasty in making decisions thus regret it in the end while women, will think it over and then decide.and when we decide it's final . :)
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
Yeah. Women are loving and honest. Not all men are dishonest but they are known for being dishonest. Men can try to be more honest so that there will be no conflict. Men tend to get hasty in making decisions.
@youless (85204)
• Guangzhou, China
31 Aug 12
I think women are much more emotional, careful and considerate. These are good virtues that men usually don't have enough. Of course multitasking is also not a problem for women. Although men can not be good at multitasking, but they can focus to do one task very well instead. I love China
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
Yeah. Men do better and focus on one task. Yeah. Virtues like being careful and considerate. Women are good at these things.
@Otanetix (509)
• United States
30 Aug 12
As a guy, I can relate to the fact that women can help men learn a lot of things. From growing up and being around women, they tend to be less impulsive than men; for me, I do at times act before I think, which can become a bad thing depending on the situation. Women also tend to be more nurturing with kids, which probably is the reason I mostly hear about female baby sitters rather than more male ones. Between men and women, I have noticed women generally tend to be more gentle and kind than men. While I am not saying there are not kind men or mean women, I can just say this is my general perception. For the most part, I think there's a lot of things women can learn from men and men can learn a lot from women. There are some things women are generally more knowledgeable with and there are things men are generally more knowledgeable with. But it's all a matter of a person's experience; you should not always judge a book by its cover. Regardless of their gender, by continually conversing with a person, you get a better sense of who they are and what they know.
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
Yeah. Women are less impulsive. Men tend to do something and realize they should've not done it. Women are also more nurturing with kids. Women are more gentle than men. Those comparisons you've made between men and women are interesting.
@natliegleb (5186)
• India
30 Aug 12
they are talented and can equip to handle different issues quite fast to save time and also meant to finish work with punctuality,there are so many things like how to run a family and how to care for them and so many things like that
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
Yeah. They know how to run a family and take care of the children. They are talented and can do multitasking. This is what we can learn from them.
@narnia007 (1051)
• India
30 Aug 12
As far as now,I did not find so much things to learn from girls,but rather learnt the things that should not be done.Are you really serious that women can multi-task?.I have a bad experience with one of my friends who tried multi-tasking and ended up the entire program which was conducted in our college.I learnt from this that I should focus on one stuff at a time and not try to do all the stuff at the same time.Also I find that women are so talkative and would always like to show others the things they know about.This many a times get them into trouble.But anyways,they give a damn about it,I prefer not to do it.
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
Yeah. The things you said are true. Women are more talkative than men. This sometimes gets them into trouble. In my opinion, women are good at multitasking. Somehow, there must be something we can learn from women.
@freedang (320)
• China
30 Aug 12
absolutely,i think that we both should learn from each other.it is hard to say if man or women is superior to the other,we can debate this question all the time without answer. there is a lot diffrences between man and women,the right things is learning from the other's strong point to offset one's weakness
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
Yeah. We can really learn from each other because we have weaknesses and strengths. But for you, what can men learn from women?
@Tushavi (2075)
• India
30 Aug 12
Nothing.
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
Nothing. There must be something we can learn from each other. hehehehe
• Philippines
30 Aug 12
Aside from the art of multi-tasking, I think men can learn the virtue of patience from women. It's actually been proven that most women are more patient than men when it comes to a lot of things. Also, a lot of men my age, or even those who are a few years older than I am tend to be immature and not really know how to be responsible. But for most women, handling responsibilities and keeping track of things, dates, schedules and others are almost second to nature for most of us. I guess there's a lot that men can learn from women, and I want to add up to this that I bet there's a lot of things that women can also learn from men.
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
Yeah. It's vice versa. Men grow older and tend to be immature. Maybe, that's the reason they lose some of their patience and be less responsible.