beginners always going do the hardest work

China
August 31, 2012 1:53am CST
I graduated in this July, and started to work two days ago. I have to do some basic and boring jobs, which makes me feel tired. cuz I just leave school I have to rent a house. Yet until yesterday i find a house with lots of mass. I have to use the only one day's holiday to do the cleaning. Anyway, its hard to live outside my university. Beginners have to do more word to learn the skills to work or live in the society. No matter what I complained ,i have to insist. I believe tomorrow is another day. I sincerely hope to find a good friend here. I can help u to learn chinese,if u have any question.
10 responses
@berting600 (3453)
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
I understand your situation that is because you are still learning even if you are now working.You are just beginning to feel the real world we are moving,unlike when you are still a student,that only your studies are what you cared for,yet now you cared for the company you are now a part.Just make yourself be accustomed to what your superiors make you do as long as you do it the right way.Soon you could make things easier with the same routine in office.I have some Chinese blood and living here in the Philippines.Can you really teach Chinese because I do not know how to speak it but I can not pay you for teaching me.I wish we could become friends.
• Philippines
1 Sep 12
You are really very kind also.You have a very good English knowledge.I hope that our communication here could not be deleted because you have written your information here which is not permitted here.I have also done that before and my discussion was deleted.Do not worry I could continue our message in your MSN address given.I will send you an email through my yahoo address.I hope you have a yahoo address.
• China
1 Sep 12
thanks for your kind reply, i'm happy to see your words. I'll not require any money, and i just want to be a good friend. you know, i work as a foreign trade employee,so i hope to find a friend that can speak english, and i can teach u chinese at the same time. hope that we can be good friend. my msn: wangerding@hotmail.com QQ:1963803223 skype: april416
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@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
Hello, Aprilwang! That is really a part of life. You just need to deal with things that might be tiring in the beginning, but will surely bare fruits which you will be happy about. Don't lose hope.
• China
31 Aug 12
hmmm, i will not lose hope, hard life will surely bare good fruits. thanks. May u have a happy life.
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
3 Sep 12
For beginners, it is a little more difficult to do their jobs as they have to take some time to get familiar with the nature of their work and such. I am sure that you will get used to it with time passing by. To live outside after graduation, it means that you will have to adjust yourself to a new surrounding around you. You have to take into consideration of the rent of an apartment, including the location as well. Every day when we wake and get up, it is a new day for us to experience, good or bad, lucky or unlucky. Whatever it might be, it is important for us to make some adjustment to the mood to the full. Now that all of us are in myLot community, we are already friends here. Enjoy your life and work, aprilwang.
@Fulltank (2882)
• Philippines
3 Sep 12
Welcome to the real world. The employment world where-in you will be imprisoned to an 8 hours a day job. And many times it goes more. The only consolation for doing that is the little piece of paper (called payslip) where you will see your income after a month or half's months work. The you will learn to say that "I wish I'm still at college". For beginners doing the hardest work? not really the hardest one, but you simply just to adjust yourself to the real work. Just give it a month or two and you will used to it.
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
31 Aug 12
hey i hope you will have a smooth life after you settle down at your place. Indeed it takes time for the beginners initially to adjust to the new conditions but that also help them to be equipped with courage and grit to face the challenges and also learn from many experiences. What say?
• China
31 Aug 12
yeah,that's true. whatever challenge has been faced , finally u will get the courage and experience. thanks for your kind words. hope u may have a wonderful life~
31 Aug 12
It is true that beginners in any area of life are not only expected to work hard but they usually are willing to work hard to prove themselves and get themselves established in a company or club or whatever sphere of society it is. The key is maintaining a good work ethic over the long haul. a lot of people start out strong but then slack off.
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
Yes, you have to be patient. We also do our best at work. Goodluck. I hope you'll love your job and your boarding house. Happy mylotting.
@ilann1 (372)
• Israel
31 Aug 12
Begging is always hard, not only at work :) But that's how you learn, grow and improve. Nobody has it easy on their first days, unless you have beginners luck.
• India
31 Aug 12
Hi friend, welcome to mylot. Good to know that you finished your degree, you have confidence and will power, as you mentioned you have hope with tomorrow, surely you will get good friends here as well as wish you to find a great job soon
@Raine38 (12257)
• United States
31 Aug 12
I can understand your sentiments. I've been there before, and to be honest, we all have to begin somewhere. Right after college, just because you have a degree doesnt mean everything will be easy and your work will be as what you have thought it would be way back in school. You will learn the most basic of basics, learn the necessary skills as well as character building as you work your way to a much better and suitable post. Give yourself at least 6 months to a year. Then I'm sure most of the higher ups would have noticed your skills and what you can do given that you give it your best in everything you do. Good luck!