Why is life hard for me ?

@Angelpink (4035)
Philippines
August 31, 2012 2:21am CST
Other woman smiles from here and there , am dignified than them , why can't i ? My life is composed of 99.8 % tears and point 2% smile. I almost forgot to smile. Why is life so hard for me Lotters ?
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11 responses
• Thailand
31 Aug 12
Ohh Angelpink, you should tell us what has happened with you? Why are you sad? Is that a depression or you are always like this? Please, tell us about your story. Everything is temperery. You'll be very happy!!!!
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@Angelpink (4035)
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
Am always like this , seems sadness and pain are my sweetheart , so tiring and frustrating for they are always with me .
@Melody968 (124)
• China
31 Aug 12
Hi Agelpink, how are you? Since you haven't told us what happened in your life and why you feel life so hard. Could you pls tell us more about you and your life? So I can discuss more and maybe some tips for you. I love smile and I know life must be some aspects unsatisfying and even pain . But I think we should try to please ourselve and smile at the difficulty and try our best to go further . The sun rises and falls every day. Our life time is very limited, only 100years! So why we let ourselves to be so depressed and unhappy? Pls try to make yourselft happy and smile and even laugh everyday.
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@Angelpink (4035)
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
Life is not easy for me. Sometimes its hard to smile but its ok.
@Ladybugs (404)
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
Hello there Angel Pink. I could feel what you are experiencing right now. I also experienced similar situation before. Just like other people around me were all very happy, smiling, laughing, having a lot of fun but I found myself only sitting somewhere and I couldn't even smile. I think I was also sad before. I also cried a lot because of some unwanted things that were happening that time. I couldn't find any reasons to smile. It's good that I was able to overcome that situation. I think what you are experiencing right now would also pass. In my case, now, I'm already smiling a lot, and even laughing. I'm enjoying my life. You could also do that. :) Maybe if you have some problems right now, don't take them too seriously. Just remember that all of our problems have their solutions. Just try your best to be happy. Do the things that could bring you happiness. Just enjoy the things that are happening with you, whether they are positive or negative ones. Those are part of your lives. Maybe just communicate with your family members or with your friends. Listen to some songs that would make you smile. Just do some things that would uplift your spirit. Always pray to God so he could help you. Don't drown yourself into tears so you won't be tired of this life. Don't be sad. Just keep on smiling. You also deserve to smile just like other people. You deserve to be happy so you need to help yourself. Just keep on smiling. It's so good to live in this world. There are still a lot of things that would happen to all of us. Stay strong. Smile. :) Always try to be happy. Always take care of yourself and happy myLotting to you. :)
@Angelpink (4035)
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
You inspired me so much , big thank you for you lady bug. Yes i will try. It is just very difficult in my part for he is part of me , in my daily routines , every single day he is there , that made me emotionally dependent on him..thats why am this broken. Thats why i write and write here , to be comforted and releases heavy load. Take care of your self too. God bless you more !
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
hello Angel, Never think that life is unfair I want to share something and hope it may help you a little Say you are born with a silver spoon but things suddenly turns counter clockwise. No matter how you keep telling yourself everything is just a dream still you find yourself waking up to a different world that seems another dimension of reality. It is not impossible for a king to step down from his throne, what more for a rich person to walk barefoot from a grassy lawn to hot rocky road. It’s not the end of the world, but for people who are not used to face difficulties of life it is Armageddon. Only the brave can surpass every test in life and each time they fall they stand again without asking why. Changing lifestyle from rich, famous to simple life is not easy. It takes courage to face the world with shame, controversies and accusations. Acceptance of truth is the easiest solution, but hard to admit. Life is like a wheel they say, sometimes you are on top and when it is your time to go down, you will understand how does it feel at the bottom and you will realize who you are during those time you are on top. Sometimes you need to be on the right place to fully understand and feel the real situation. Everything happens with a reason and there is always a good reason why it happens no matter how bad you think it is.
@Angelpink (4035)
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
Jaiho , this is very inspiring ! True life is a wheel, no guarantee that will be able to maintain our status ..thats why we need to be humble always and never to forget the place where we came from . Yes for everything there is a reason. Thanks Jai !
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
This is the best reason why I love mylot a lot. We can share everything, our feelings without hesitation. We feel we found someone to listen to us when we're all alone.. Thanks for the appreciation :) Life is so short to be wasted for worthless worries
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@jricky1 (6800)
• China
31 Aug 12
Hi friend, just do not upset, life is not easy for every people and we may all go through difficulties. Sometimes i just think the same with you. But you can really get what you want if you do something that near your dream. Come on,life is cool for us.
@Angelpink (4035)
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
Hope it is really cool , because at times i feel is so hot that it seems like to explode all our system especially the heart and mind.
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
31 Aug 12
Sometimes life is really unpredictable. I can also say that I am also experiencing the same thing right now. This is because of certain situation that is beyond my control. But I am trying to smile a lot despite my present problems. I don't want other people to see that I am lonely inside and I am hoping that everything will just pass and every problem has a solution. Cheer up!
@Angelpink (4035)
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
So good of you , thats really my problem , for i don't know how to cover my emotion. Blue or happy , all people will know and see it.
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
3 Sep 12
Many times I think it is easy to often let life overwhelm us to where we are always crying and feeling like there is no hope. Honestly I am so Glad that there is a hope and a help for others. A lot of help that seems to help me is coming in here from time to time when I can and posting about things going on in my life, and just being able to relate with others when they might have experienced almost all the same type of experiences out there as well.
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
If you life is kinda hard now, I guess that won't remain forever. Try your best to make your life happy. It's just too short to waste. I sometimes cry too. When I go home on weekends, that's the time I spend time with my husband and son. However, there are some instances that my husband and I argue. Instead of being happy with them, I feel sad sometimes. That's life. Let's live by experiencing different emotions. Happy mylotting.
@Angelpink (4035)
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
Too much emotion can sometimes want me to give up for life. Who don't want to be happy ? None right ?
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
Hi Angelpink. Life could be very difficult for some people. It sometimes is difficult for me too. I don't know the difficulty you are facing right now, so I would just be speaking from a general point of view. During the hard times, I always remember that if life is difficult now, it would always get better later. For those people who always had their lives easy, I always wonder how could their lives get any better? But to us who had difficult life, how could it get any worse? Difficult or not, try to always look at the positive side. Life isn't always easy, but happiness is a choice. I wish you all the best.
@Angelpink (4035)
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
Yes happiness is a choice but you can never be happy if you're that broken.
@Jennib1 (62)
• South Africa
31 Aug 12
Dear Angelpink I am really sorry to hear that you are so unhappy. Please believe me even those people that smile and look as if they do not have any worries in the world, also have their problems. It all depends on how we react to our problems. Always see a problem not as a problem, but as a challenge to overcome. As some of mylotters have mentioned here there will be days when things go fine and then the problems will come again but it will get better. I wish you all the best.
@Jennib1 (62)
• South Africa
31 Aug 12
I am really sorry to hear that you are so unhappy. Just remember there is not one person who does not have problems in this world. It can be emotional, financial, family problems. Even those people that seem t