How to talk a girl for the first time?

India
September 4, 2012 3:48am CST
To start interaction with a unknown girl is not so easy for a young boy, if he is shy.
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8 responses
• Philippines
5 Sep 12
If he really likes the girl why should he be shy? He has to gather all his confidence and start a friendly conversation. He can start with his greetings and his best smile. If the girl answers back, then it's time to start a getting-to-know-each other conversation. He should remember to be himself. He doesn't need to impress the girl. He might overdo it and he might turn off the girl. Girls know if they are telling the truth or just lying. Goodluck to the shy boys. Being shy doesn't make us any good.
• Indonesia
5 Sep 12
Yes I know it's not easy because as my experience that the girls get to know that we do not know it's not easy having to beat the taste malu.Berbeda when we introduced by someone that is not too difficult, hehe: D
@berting600 (3453)
• Philippines
4 Sep 12
It is not really very easy to start knowing a girl,especially if you are just starting to get excited with them.The best way to do this is when everybody is having an affair or maybe a party and get together.Try to ask someone who knows the girl and ask that friend to have you introduced so you could start knowing her information,and so that you could also formally introduced yourself to her.Do not let her know you are a shy type and instead try to make a story to make things going smoothly.
@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
4 Sep 12
change to ! Yes, just put on your best smile and the rest is history. Many drama, animation and movies depict how a shy boy will mumble and fumble to start a conversation with the girl he likes. So, the best way is be prepared what to talk and have alternative plan if the first plan do not works. A light topic will be good for ice breaker and always bring your best smile along.
@chymez_me (186)
• Philippines
4 Sep 12
Maybe he can ask their common friends to introduce them to each other.. i think that's the best option for a shy young boy to meet this unknown girl.. but if they don't have common friends, then it's either he gets out of his shy shell and introduce himself to her or he can just continue being shy and miss the chance of knowing the girl in a deep sense...
@iola2012 (172)
• Philippines
4 Sep 12
A simple hi's and hello's can work for a shy boy. Then, he will have the confidence for the next time around.
@Shavkat (137220)
• Philippines
4 Sep 12
I don't think so, if a shy boy showed his simplicity. The tendency knowing the girl would be easy.
@sbrn11 (415)
• India
4 Sep 12
Just smile, if she smiles back, than start a conversation. Hi, How are you and all... than just go along the flow. Good luck. :)