It's better to have an honest enemy...

Philippines
September 5, 2012 2:49am CST
Some people say that it's better to have an enemy who honestly says they hate you than to have a friend who puts you down secretly. What do you think about this fellow mylotters? Feel free to share your thoughts everyone. Happy mylotting.
3 responses
@blinjk (613)
• Philippines
5 Sep 12
I think you are right.It is better than to have an honest enemy than having a friend who tells bad things when you are not around.I have an enemy like that she was my friend before.She is not scared to say that she hated me but at first when she was still my friend.I heard lots of things that she says when I am not around.Then she began saying that she hates me when she became a friend of a rich girl in our hometown. She always sends me messages at facebook that I was a traitor and everything but I did not mind her just to make her stop.Until now, she still hates me because of things that she has done herself.
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• Philippines
5 Sep 12
Oh, she's terrible. Block her in Facebook. Edit your account privacy so that she can't send any message to you anymore. We don't need that kind of friend. They say, our friends are our worst enemies. Happymylotting.
@kongno (431)
• Philippines
5 Sep 12
i think they are both enemies, ask of i don't want to have them both...
• Philippines
5 Sep 12
Yes, I agree with you. I don't want to have any enemy and a dishonest friend. They'll just make my life terrible. I want to have a peaceful life. Happy mylotting.
@annavi23 (6306)
• Philippines
8 Sep 12
How about you, karah, what do you prefer? I guess people who tells you that they hate you are more true of their feelings cause they just say what they feel and it is somehow good than keep it to themselves and pretend nothing is wrong. Though sometimes, it's hard to tell friends you hate them or the way they behave or act or say things. It's hard to confront them at times and you just don't want to hurt their feelings. but they have to know. every person has to know that they have done wrong and friends have to be honest and tell them that they are doing wrong.
• Philippines
30 Nov 12
I'd better have an enemy to tell me that they hate me than to have friends who'll put me down secretly. It's really hearbreaking to know that if your trusted friend is pulling you down without your knowledge. I guess one day, we'll find out about their true color. I guess it would better to have an honest enemy. You're right. It's difficult to tell our friends straight to their face that we don't like what they do or how they act, etc. We might hurt them but it would be better to be honest at all times. :)