When you feel desperate,who do you want to ask for help?
By xiaopinggai
@xiaopinggai (483)
China
September 10, 2012 7:31am CST
It's a disharmony situation,while the office-bearers were chatting and drinking tea,a woman cried hysterically in front of the office building.
I didn't know what happened,but i learnt that she must be desperate.Generally,the rich person are welcomed to the government,however it's contrary to the poor.
Unless it refers to something that is about survival event,or else nobody(only means the poor people)want to have a contact with the government,where we will lose our dignity.
So when you feel desperate,who do you want to ask for help?
8 responses
@shokriw (26)
• Eritrea
11 Sep 12
I avoid people as much as i can. I call the one who's never busy, Almighty. God always listen, you just need to know his path.
People aren't there whenever you need them. Yes, the could offer some comfort, but can't heel your soul. The only one how relief your soul is almighty.
@xiaopinggai (483)
• China
11 Sep 12
Hum,that's true.
When you need someone,they are either too busy or they can't understand your feeling.
In fact,except ask for help from my friends,i always solve the problem by myselves.
I know,if i still keep depressed,the ending will be more worse.
As long as i do some change,i can overcome it.
Haha,i believe your way is useful too,just be yourself,that's what we need.
Best wishes.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
10 Sep 12
My parents and my bf only . Those are the people I trust to always know the truth . If I am real desperate I would ask God for help because that's where my help comes from when all others fail.
@xiaopinggai (483)
• China
11 Sep 12
Ha,you have so many ways to solve your problem.
I believe you must be a very sunshine person in your daily life,that's wonderful.
Just keep smile and insist it.
You will be more and more beautiful.
Have a nice day.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
As much as possible i want to spare my parents from my problems. i try to keep things to myself but if i really feel like pouring out my heart to someone i call my very close friend.
@xiaopinggai (483)
• China
11 Sep 12
Ye,by this way,no matter what the problem it is,at last,it will be the past as soon as possible.
And at the same time,we can share their trouble by the communication.
@melissa14344 (211)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
When I feel like this, I contact my fellow believers in Christ to ask for their advice and prayer. If they are not around, I only need to read my BIble and listen to worship songs. Most of the time I talk to Jesus in the way I talk to a friend. After that, I feel a lot more better. My perspectives are in the right way again. :D
@xiaopinggai (483)
• China
11 Sep 12
Wow,that's sounds great.
I have never talk to jesus,but i want to have a try when i know how to do it,haha.
If my friends can't give me some advices,i will talk with myself in my heart.
Encouraging myself,and do some different thing,to divert attention from the bad mood.
@joan_laganzon (73)
•
10 Sep 12
lately it haw been my husbands sister in law that i ask for advice when i get frustrated in my life, but most of the time i asked my husbands advice when i have a problem, cause hes someone I can be myself and i can tell anything i want.
@xiaopinggai (483)
• China
11 Sep 12
Ye,that's true.
He is not only your husband,but also is your soul mate.
You know each other very well,so it's easier for you to solve the problem.
After all,when we love someone,he will be a world to you.
Hum,best wishes to you and your family.
Have a nice day.
@aryzairam (57)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
Whenever I need help, I always run to my mom. Because she's the one, I'm absolutely sure, who will always be there for me.
@xiaopinggai (483)
• China
11 Sep 12
Uh,you are right,in the world,only our parents love us with thier whole life.
@Shavkat (137238)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
My family is always my support system, they are there to support me all through out, no matter what. If ever I felt so drown in desperation, then I will just run to them for reinforcement.
@xiaopinggai (483)
• China
11 Sep 12
Sometimes ,i feel ,though it's a very common thing---there is someone can console us at anytime,as long as our mood is depressed,they will be there,that's a priceless wealth.
@caopaopao (12395)
• China
10 Sep 12
Hi, xiaoping
When I feel desperate, I will ask for help from my husband or the other members in my family. They are always the helpful persons for me when I am in trouble.I don't think the government can help me out of trouble.
@xiaopinggai (483)
• China
11 Sep 12
Ye,i never believe it.
We can rely on the people who we trust to get rid of the bad mood.
Best wished to you.
