Heart ache Lover

September 13, 2012 2:04am CST
generally, people wants to have their lover for fun, I mean fun in good or even the worst. But I am so unlucky to have a very selfish lover. Should I break up the relationship with her ?
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5 responses
@5mahi05 (667)
• India
13 Sep 12
selfish lover?! well, your post seems a little blank for me to suggest you to break up with her or continue with her. Being selfish for what?!
@Winike (65)
• Hungary
13 Sep 12
Totally Agree , question lacks in information!
13 Sep 12
well, I've told you that my lover is so selfish and it was not clear so that now I'd like to tell you that she always wants me to do anything based on her idea, let's say I can't put on a red -T shirt only because she doesn't like it, and she often ask me anything but she never gives me what I want. It is selfish, isn't it?
• Indonesia
14 Sep 12
To break up it is your problem, because you are living and you are feeling sendri. I think you have to give explanations first so she could understand. I just contributed suggestions, as I also have a selfish lover, but it does not happen all the time. If you feel that your lover is valid selfish and each described keterlalu never understood so you're forced to take action to discontinue the relationship.
@obe212003 (2302)
• Philippines
13 Sep 12
A relationship for me is a two-way street, and if one is not reciprocating the way you would expect him/her to be, then there is something wrong with your relationship, and maybe you're being taken for granted. I think it is time to reassess and hopefully end up with a wise and good decision for yourself.
• Portugal
13 Sep 12
why do you say your lover is selfish? doesnt she spend time with you? is she acting careless? well if you are not happy then you should break up. you know life is too short to be spent with someone that makes us unhappy. fight for your happiness. if you are sad in that relation just end it.
@riyauro (6428)
• India
13 Sep 12
well yeah your discussion lacks information. since you have decided that your lover is selfish then I think you can decide on your own to leave her or keep her. I won't be able to suggest anything because I don't know what the situation is.. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead.