He is the most kind person i met but i mad him mad..

Philippines
September 14, 2012 8:12am CST
My husband is the most kind person i met in my life and he gave everything i need but i mad him to me by saying non sense words, hope he can forgive me for what i have said to him. I really do not know what to do...
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@Raine38 (9117)
• United States
14 Sep 12
We really tend the ones we love the most. While that is not what we really want in our hearts, there are times that we can't just avoid it. In any relationships, there will always be conflicts like this. The true test comes with how the two people can come out of it. Just say you're sorry. If he's still mad, then accept it and let him cool down and collect his thoughts. He's not really mad at you per se, he's mad at your action. It's the act, not the person. Also try to be sweet to him. Just to appease him and to remind him what he's going to miss if he continues being mad.
@Raine38 (9117)
• United States
14 Sep 12
Ooooppps, I missed a few words, it should be "we really tend TO HURT the ones we love the most". Darn keyboard, lol!
@kongno (431)
• Philippines
14 Sep 12
as you said your husband is kind he will surely understand you just give him the most romantic hugs and kisses and everything will be fine, at least you accept you wrong doings,...
• Philippines
27 Apr 13
This is a late reply but need to make one. It is indeed a vital thing in a relationship the way we accept our own faults. Thats a sign that we respect our partner, right? Thanks and good luck
@cylle_06 (233)
• Philippines
24 Apr 13
is this your first time to have an argument with him?...well you said that he is kind.. so there's no doubt of his love and his understanding towards you... i'm sure you'll get by and be like you always are with each other...
• India
4 Oct 12
This post is 3 weeks old. Hope now every thing is fine between you and your husband.. :)
• United States
3 Oct 12
In any marriage there are always hurt feelings from time to time. I've been married 20 years and sometimes my mouth gets me into trouble. For years it was very difficult to not get defensive when my husband would get upset with me, when there was good cause. I've learned that it is much better to admit your faults, spending too much money, etc. If that doesn't work you can always say it's that time of the month! :)
• China
24 Sep 12
don't worry,i think if you can talk about the troubles with him,he can forgive you,he is the closed person in your life,you should exchange with him.
• Philippines
15 Sep 12
Be the one to approach him, apologise and make it up to him. You could probably cook food for him tonight or give him a massage. And never do it again.
@caopaopao (8740)
• China
15 Sep 12
Dear friend, In a marriage, everyone will make small mistakes now and then. I doubt there is someone who never did something wrong. But when it happeded, we must find a way to fix it. I think the best way is to say apology if it's needed. Hope you can get out of it soon!
@airasheila (5459)
• Philippines
14 Sep 12
Good day Bhebelen14, For whatever reason that you and your husband has gone, for sure, you can handle it. And your issue will be resolve