People who loves to joke, are they the lonely ones?
By chiyochan
@chiyosan (30184)
Philippines
September 14, 2012 9:34am CST
I just thought of this somehow... not really declaring a statement but rather just asking a question or your opinion of the people who loves to kid arround, give out jokes and even make fun of other people... I am not talking about those who are just jolly by nature and are just fun to be with, i am talking about people who tries to be humorous but often times fail and appear to be trying to hard to show that they are happy people but could just be trying to cover up for some of their issues, or whatever it is that is troubling them. What do you think? has this ever occured to you when you get to be with people like this?
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7 responses
@jelynbaxa (52)
• Philippines
14 Sep 12
I actually observe the ones that are joking are the ones who is internally in need of help i dont know why'd i say that but seemingly when we all had our groups had our own attitude some seems to be just happy outside but deep inside them they don't really are...But I'm thankful coz some share there stories too maybe because they just had their feeling that "oh i just gonna keep it within me coz everybody owns a problem and i dont like them to bother me" so we should also sometimes take their position so that somehow they'd be happy too even with a hard life.
@youiemohctar (30)
• Philippines
14 Sep 12
i have to agree, generally speaking.
these are the people who are talented and a great observer but not able to observe their own..these are the people who are flexible and understanding. they don't disagree you but they comment.this where they are valued in each group it complete each family,friends or any kind of organization. but they cant deny the fact of being alone and that moment they cant make any humor for themselves.
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@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
14 Sep 12
the thing is, anything is possible with anyone. we can see a person who seemed troubled, bu tin reality they are just as normally getting on with their lives - but they just look worried or is just a worrier kind of person. The best though for those who seemed ready to share their humor and jokes with many others even in groups or crowd are those who are able to at least release the burden they carry... unlike those who always is silent and is just keeping things to themselves.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
14 Sep 12
Thank you mikyung for your response. people will always have their reactions and there are always those who are very good at observations. we just need to be careful and sensitive in dealing with people. we do not know from how they appear in the surface whether they are fighting a battle. but we can always appear to be helpful and offer whatever we can to minimize their burdens.
@kenshin2143 (1880)
• Philippines
14 Sep 12
I think you have a point here. I do believe that those people who tend to make jokes are the people who are really having personal problems, whether in school, family or love life. They just tend to hide that negative aspect in their life encapsulating them in their jokes. You may try to observe them when they are alone to see their true identity and sufferings.
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@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
14 Sep 12
this is what i have noticed myself. the thing is often it is really the case. i have known someone who is always really the happiest person, he is the one who always tells jokes and is very quick to respond with humor and everyone would just love having him around - and then we got to know he was dealing with some major issues at home... i guess it is just about us being sensitive too and knowing what is really inside everyone of us...
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
14 Sep 12
i think it is true that people can be like this, maybe we all have been this kind of person... we try to hide our feelings of loneliness and sorrow by joking and laughing at things and show we are happy, but deep inside, we could be worried, and troubled.
@lizrelox (144)
• Philippines
14 Sep 12
Yeah mostly these people gets easily bored when there are no jokes. That is what mostly I have encountered and also I love to be with someone who has a good sense of humor especially at work so that you will not notice the time and that lessens the stress you will feel less tired. Also most of the time these people can easily adjust if the conversation is about serious matters.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
15 Sep 12
that is true... People who are very happy are god to be with. It is not very cool to be in the company of peole who seemed too serious about life. Haha they often give more burden than help minimize it. Thank you so much for your response. Bless you and see you around mylot.
@nidakhan001 (305)
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14 Sep 12
dont you think its a good thing that even they have issues but they are still trying to stay happy ? and i believe nobody can show up fake happiness for a long time.if they are then it means they have already learned up to stay happy in their hardest times
