Being stupid because of love
By blinjk
@blinjk (617)
United States
September 15, 2012 6:38am CST
When you love a person,there are times that you will find yourself being so crazy and stupid.A friend in facebook told me about his friends calling him stupid because of falling in love with someone.My friend is a gay and he was really regretting why he have gave money to the guy he really likes.I said to him that,love sometimes makes you stupid and you will do anything just to be close to him.He was really happy that I understand the situation that he is in.I said that it is normal that you will really look stupid because of love.It is not new and it will happen to anyone.He should take that as a lesson and he should know what to do the next time he will fall in love.Sometimes,people will really abuse your kindness because they know you like them.How about you guys?Did you experience being stupid because of love?
6 responses
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
20 Sep 12
It's not stupidity but love.
That is the reason why people fall in love because we cannot control our feelings.
No matter how we try to go against our feelings- still love conquers all.
There maybe unusual things that we can do in the name of love, but it's not stupidity.
@kris3rdE (156)
• Philippines
16 Sep 12
Hi!
I'm a great example of being stupid because of love. My BF and I are living together for almost 9 years. We have 2 adorable kids. I work for us and he take care of our children. There we're instances that he hit me when we're fighting to be exact he hit me 7times in our 9 years of us being together. I moved out but keeps on coming back. The last time it happened I showed him that we can live without him. He and his family begged for us to come back. And you now what? I did! Most of my family and friends are so against about my decision. Calling me stupid for believing that he'll never do it again.I know that's stupid but I love him. Poor me...
@srikandi19 (3391)
• Kuta, Indonesia
15 Sep 12
No, with love our life more be colorful.
Love is amazing
@GemmaR (8517)
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15 Sep 12
I think that we have all been through being a little silly in the past for the sake of love. I once loved somebody who didn't love me back for four years, and it took me that long to be able to realise that he wasn't the right person for me and that I wasn't going to be able to be happy with him in the way that I was hoping myself to be. I had to move on, and I have now been with my current partner for three years and we are very happy together. Looking back, I can't believe how silly I was about this guy, but life is all about learning from your mistakes and being able to move on.
@natliegleb (5175)
• India
15 Sep 12
that is true and it happens most of the time,so many of my friends tend to impress and eventually feel stupid to girls at the end of the day
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
15 Sep 12
Hi blinjk, yes i experienced it, my ex boyfriend abuse my kindness and he makes me look stupid in front of many people. I thought he really love me and very faithful but behind my back he's doing something. The hardest thing was i did not believe my relatives when they told me that he was cheating on me, i ma blind and madly in love to him during that time, but when i found out everything it made me realized that he is not the man i am looking for and he dont not deserved my love. I am glad that we broke up and i found someone who loves me more that i do and i know that my husband will never cheat on me and never abuse me
