Power of Confidence
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
India
September 21, 2012 6:27am CST
Confidence is very important to every person, we don't have the ability to get success in our life without confidence. In fact we can't do anything without confidence, if we are doing a thing, surely we have confidence about our work and hope we will finish the work with our ability. Our self confidence is the great tool which help us to achieve a lot of things in our life.
We can live our life with the power of our self confidence. A great proverb tells, Where there is a will, there is a way. Here will is our confidence, if we have confidence about our self surely we will find a way to live our life happily. Not all the VIP's are born with silver spoon, some persons born in poor family, but they have lot of confidence about their ability and achieve a great position with their hard work and efforts.
Confidence is the base for all, if you believe you have the ability and you can do a thing, it is your confidence and you will do that thing with your effort and determination. Finally you will get success with your hope. Each and every one is having confidence, but some persons refuse to express it, so their confidence is in hidden position.
Don't hesitate to keep out your confidence. We all have the ability to do a lot of things, Nothing is possible to a willing heart If you have belief in your self and have confident about your ability, surely you will do a lot of things in your life. So confidence is the great power. Do you agree with me? What are your ways to improve your self confidence?
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19 responses
@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
29 Jan 13
Thank you so much for this inspiring discussion, yes self confidence as well as confidence over family members, staffs, colleagues is the basic necessity to be successful in the modern world
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
29 Jan 13
prof, good to hear that you like my topic, as you mentioned we need self confidence for our success.
@Shavkat (137238)
• Philippines
28 Jan 13
Trusting yourself will bring the inner strength of your life. If I have the chance, I wanted to continue doing development works. It can be a feeling of pride whenever you had helped people.
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
29 Jan 13
Hi friend, you are right, we must be confident about our self to achieve a lot of things in our life
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
27 Sep 12
Yes, I agree, the power of confidence is an important thing. It is a vital part of life and something most people need in huge amounts in order to be able to get by. Especially when wanting to do or try something new, if they are not showing a vote of confidence in that area then how are they ever supposed to succeed?
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
28 Sep 12
Hi friend, as you mentioned, without confidence we don't have the ability to do anything in our life and achieve success, our self confidence is the key for every thing
@BigMoney25 (1286)
• Philippines
24 Sep 12
Confidence is very important to a person. It helps a person face the daily challenges with strength. Also it empowers a person to ignore criticisms or anything the same. Well I love building my confidence by working hard and showing to people that I can perform well and from there I pull my confidence. The same when you dress sharp, when you dress sharp and professional you also boost your confidence because the feel of need to work in a high level is there and that's something very helpful as well.
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
24 Sep 12
Hi friend, you are right, confidence is important to each and every living person, without it we don't have the ability to achieve anything in our life
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
27 Sep 12
Hi,
You are right. Confidence is very important to every person. In this unpredictable world, confidence is a most useful asset. There are inevitably many situations, which we face with alarm. In such cases, a timid person may give up and run away. A confident person will size up the situation, prepare himself as well as possible, and then tackle it with determination to succeed, or at least to make a good attempt. You should first of all be confident about yourself. You should not be hesitant in taking responsible risks. The world is looking for people with confidence and decisive spirit.
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
28 Sep 12
Hi friend, you provide the good points about confidence, it is our energy and we can do a lot of things with our confidence
@Csyluckdays (169)
• Egypt
26 Sep 12
that confidence could be very helpful in your life.but it should be based on strong elements.
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
26 Sep 12
yes, confidence is always important in our life, without confidence it is really hard to achieve anything
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
22 Sep 12
Yes self confidence is the best motivator and tool for success people who lack self confidence, rather try new things, or advance in their work and social life etc.
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
22 Sep 12
Hi friend, without self confidence, we don't do anything, merely we are do for nothing. We must have confidence about our self and do our things with hope
@GemmaR (8517)
•
23 Sep 12
Confidence is probably the most important thing that we are able to have in our lives, because it means that we have the power to be able to reach for the things that we want to get during the course of our lives. I don't think that people without confidence are able to do things, because it means that they don't think they're good enough to try certain things so they just don't bother doing so. I have had low confidence in the past, but I have managed to make things a bit better for myself now so I will chase the things that I want to achieve in life.
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
24 Sep 12
Hi friend, good to hear that you improved your confidence now, without our confidence we don't have the ability to do anything in our life
@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
21 Sep 12
Hi prakash,I agree with all that you say 
,Will power and self confidence are two sides of the same coin.As you rightly point out some are not able to put their confidence into use because of some other drawback...That's why we should develop these qualities while children are young, this also includes the ability to accept ones mistakes and make amends if possible..Enjoy your weekend prakash, hope you had an enjoyable time during the festivities
,Will power and self confidence are two sides of the same coin.As you rightly point out some are not able to put their confidence into use because of some other drawback...That's why we should develop these qualities while children are young, this also includes the ability to accept ones mistakes and make amends if possible..Enjoy your weekend prakash, hope you had an enjoyable time during the festivities @vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
22 Sep 12
usha, you are right, will power and confidence is important to every one, first of all we must have self confidence and achieve our target with our will power. Hope you enjoyed a lot with the festival and have a great week end
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
23 Sep 12
Confidence can show many things indeed, make others believe in the confident one as the confident seems to know where they are going wich is dangerous cause if you follow the blind... I think so many lack on confidence and self esteem that's what makes confidence shines like a too important virtue when the truth is the one that should be on top was a good heart.
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
24 Sep 12
Hi friend, without confidence our life is nothing, nothing is impossible to a willing heart and we must face everything with our confidence
@mrswhitfield (2044)
• Indonesia
21 Sep 12
Do not bow your head while walking, It was once said by my cousin. We have to hold our head high as we walk so that others do not underestimate our existence. I sometimes feel inferior to meet other people because I am not confident with my appearance, so I always try to look as neat and elegant as possible and always expanding my knowledge. At least the knowledge can be a powerful weapon to get along with a variety of backgrounds.
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
21 Sep 12
Hi friend, be confident and avoid your inferiority complex, don't care about the appearance and care about your knowledge. Be confident and make a lot of good friends, all the best
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
21 Sep 12
I must admit that sometimes I don't have enough confidence in myself. I am trying to learn this stuff but there are still time that I'm afraid of doing something because of the fear that I might be rejected. And yes, this is one of my problems but I am trying to overcome it.
thank you for starting this kind of discussion it somehow made me realized that we should always believe in our own abilities.
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
21 Sep 12
Hi friend, sad to hear that you are lack in confidence. I thought you are good in confidence, as i know you are working in a good job and you are in training now, as i know you are far away from your family for your training purpose and attending it boldly, so i thought you are good in self confidence. Anyway, motivate your self to get confidence. You can achieve a lot in your life, all the best
@liuhanliang666 (65)
• China
22 Sep 12
confidence is the great power,i think so, i believe that confidence is important, i think that confidence is a faith about myself,if one person don't have confidence in his life,success wil leave from me.in my life,i always read some book about successful people,i want to became a successful person.
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
22 Sep 12
Hi friend, welcome to mylot. you are right, it is really hard to live our life without self confidence
@titomeong (70)
• Philippines
21 Sep 12
It's a good thing to discuss about confidence. In my case, whenever i stand in front of the class, I'm always thinking negative things or most commonly that i think is my fear when I'm standing in front of them, i don't know the reason why, but that's what i am, and that's the part of my grown up. As the years pass by, i realize how important the confidence in our life. And it helps me a lot.
Thanks!, and God Bless to you!.
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
22 Sep 12
Hi friend, good to know that you realize the value of confidence, be confident and don't fear about anything, we have the ability to come out from our issues.
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
21 Sep 12
I quite agree, confidence-wise one learns to know more about one's self, able to assess everything the comes his/her way and without a doubt of pursuing it the best possible rational way. I guess being a confident is imperative in order to boost one's personality.
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
21 Sep 12
Hi friend, self confidence is the intellectual property of each and every one and others don't have the ability to steal it, we must improve our confidence and achieve a lot with it
@penrockerchic (1903)
• Philippines
21 Sep 12
Everything you said about confidence is quite right! Sometimes, it's hard to have that confidence especially if one had a lot of failures in the past. But, if someone sees failures as a learning tool, instead of being the end of everything, then, there's no other way but for a person to grow into a more confident one. Some are gifted with confidence, but we can always build it up and soon, it becomes a part of us.
I remember, first year in college, a friend's guy once said to me that I might not be able to finish the degree I chose to take, especially since a lot of people tend to flunk subjects and would end up finishing it for more than its specified years. It was at that time that I can say, my confidence grew and it started with me trying to prove that he was wrong. And he was. Even at times when I felt like there's no hope, I always trusted my self that I could get to my goal.
With confidence and trust on one's self, people can actually get to higher grounds, better places, greater achievements than they could have ever imagined.
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
21 Sep 12
Hi friend, good to hear that you achieved your goal with your confidence, really you shared a good info hear which is apt to this topic. Thanks for your reply
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
21 Sep 12
In my entire life, i have confidence for myself. Even when i was so skinny, i am still confident of myself. That's because i know that i can still gain friends even if i don't look physically good because i was so thin then.
I think, it's my ability to easily make friends that really gives me confidence!
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
21 Sep 12
Hi friend, good to know that you always have confidence in your life, which let you to achieve a lot, keep it up forever
@viju0410 (2286)
• India
21 Sep 12
HI VP,
Good topic and i liked your inputs on the power of being confident. 
Confidence can not be borrowed from someone, so better plan, organize what you want and go accordingly, that will make you gain confidence and get succeed in life.
Even a MBA person lacks confidence to sometimes write, face the criticism, speaking in English is most common among few of my friends and i do try to boost their confidence towards achieving.
I think understanding things how will it go and prepare yourself for the same. Ok, if you ask me how to i improve my self confidence? Its a secret...
No friend, i drink a glass of water and think cool on how to go about it, am i prepared well, this is just not the end, be positive... so i can face it.
Confidence can not be borrowed from someone, so better plan, organize what you want and go accordingly, that will make you gain confidence and get succeed in life.
Even a MBA person lacks confidence to sometimes write, face the criticism, speaking in English is most common among few of my friends and i do try to boost their confidence towards achieving.
I think understanding things how will it go and prepare yourself for the same. Ok, if you ask me how to i improve my self confidence? Its a secret... No friend, i drink a glass of water and think cool on how to go about it, am i prepared well, this is just not the end, be positive... so i can face it.
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
21 Sep 12
viju, glad to see your reply as my first one. Sad to hear that some MBA persons are lack in confidence, you are doing a great thing by motivating them. First of all we must believer our self to improve our self confidence, a person who don't have faith with himself is do for nothing.
@blinjk (617)
• United States
21 Sep 12
Your topic is helpful.I am not that confident and maybe that is why I did not achieve a lot of things.But I am trying to improve it by knowing all my weaknesses.Sometimes,I can't express what to say to other people and I am not conversant.I am talking to a lot of people right now just to improve my self confidence.I am still afraid but I have to motivate myself in order to be successful.
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
21 Sep 12
Hi friend, first of all, don't think you are lack in confidence, think you can do anything and every thing. Be optimist, it will help you to get success in your life, good to know that you are motivating your self, keep it up
