Irritation
@winniemariposa (255)
China
September 22, 2012 10:59am CST
I was angry and sad because my friends paid no attention to me when I asked them a question, instead, they were talking about shopping and homework. I knew that they may just not hear my words, but indeed I was hurt.Soon after that, they apologized to me for their ignoring. Although I realized that it was not their fault, I still needed some time to adjust my mindset. You know, sometimes,what our good friends do unconsciously may hurt our hearts.
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@xiaopinggai (483)
• China
23 Sep 12
I know this feeling,you know why,i am ignored by my good friends for many times.
Haha,but i can understand them,for they didn't on purpose.
Though at the first time,i felt angry and sad too,with time flies,i am accustomed to this case.
After all,sometimes,i didn't catch with their words as well as them,haha
@winniemariposa (255)
• China
23 Sep 12
I agree. We should calm down to consider others' thoughts no matter when we are irritated. Otherwise, we may be in low spirit for a long time, meanwhile, we may hurt our friends' hearts because they are not intended to ignore us.
@winniemariposa (255)
• China
22 Sep 12
Thank you for your encouragement, of course you are right. Although I realize that I should calm down to deal with things peacefully, I can hardly control myself. Maybe I need some more practices to learn to be tough.:)
@shibham (16977)
• India
22 Sep 12
Hi..
I always keep a sentence in my mind " S/he is the strongest man/woman in this world who stands most time alone" - Hemingway said. So, better try to live ourselves so that we dont get hurt by anyone. Openly speaking, i never discuss anything with my friends.
have a nice time.
@winniemariposa (255)
• China
22 Sep 12
Maybe it is a good idea to stand alone, but I can not stay only by myself for a long time, because I think our world consists of many relationships, and friendship plays a major part. No one can keep tough forever, and good friends will help us whenever we are in need.
@sunshinefame (287)
• Philippines
22 Sep 12
Well, it always happen to me, when I talk seems they didn't hear when in fact I have loud voice lol, so if they didn't hear me I will repeat the question, just don't be sensitive it will always hurt , as you say , have a mindset , just learn to adjust friends are not perfect , just understand their shortcomings.
@winniemariposa (255)
• China
22 Sep 12
It is hard for us to forgive others' mistakes, but it will be easier to ignore our weaknesses. So we are always stuck in the problem that we will be annoyed because of others' behavior, however, we will be confused when they get annoyed.
