Irony of life: Those U give time, Neglects you. Those you neglect, Gives U time

Philippines
September 24, 2012 10:19pm CST
There are people in your life that no matter how much effort, love and time you give, you still experience to be neglected and worst of all trash you as if you are something no worthy of their time. While sometimes, there are people you don't notice or sometimes you don't have a time to give, they are the one who is so eager to love you and care for you. I wonder if there is a problem with our eye or a problem with our heart or problem with our mind or all of the above.
3 responses
• Philippines
25 Sep 12
hmmm that is something to think about with ourselves actually. Coz we set standards of whom we want to spend or be with the rest of our life. We sometimes closed doors for the possibility that is or more likely to embrace. Sometimes we are blinded with just physical look than the inner self of a person. (sigh) what a life we wanted to live hehehehe... Enjoy life, choose wisely
• Philippines
7 Oct 12
thanks igatiful. I guess with our environment, upbringing and other factors around, people really tend to put standards. It may be knowingly or unknowingly.
@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
26 Sep 12
You know there's a saying that, you'll know the value/importance of a thing or a person when they are gone. We can't force people to treat us the way we wanted them to treat us. There are just people who don't know how to value or even show appreciation on what is there. People try to search for things they don't have and don't learn the existence of being thankful on what is left. We are just human. it is nature to not feel contented at times. But as we grow old, we also must think mature enough to know how to act and treat others. There are things we can't get no matter how we tried to. It just happens. Life is unfair at times but maybe there are better things we have to put attention to, that's why we can't get what we wanted....
@Raine38 (12258)
• United States
25 Sep 12
This pretty much also describes the "we hurt the ones we love" saying. It is just that we have been so used to their presence, their efforts exerted for us that we tend to completely ignore them completely or take them for granted. Then in our pursuit of someone else, we completely become blind to what we have all along. We tend to pursue love that is not meant to be when love has been right in front of us all along. We try hard to impress people to be our friends, when real friends have been beside us yet we just can't see.