With the situation that I have now, its difficult to enjoy life.

Philippines
September 25, 2012 5:53am CST
Good day Fellow Mylotters, It looks like I am really in the midst of trials. That, I really feel so low because for every 1 solution that I have, I am encountering 3 problems. Thus, this makes my life unbalance. That is why I often thinks how can I enjoy life. Wherein, for every 3 problems, I am just getting 1 solution. And what makes me think thoroughly is that, the issues are cropping up. And I feel like drowning.
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@fatlex06 (895)
• Philippines
25 Sep 12
I feel for you. I think what you have to do is pray. Ask guidance from Him because it was Him who gave you that kind of trial. Every trials in our life has a purpose. Be strong, there will be no other person who will help you more but yourself and God ofcourse. Maybe He is just testing your skills if you have improved in life. Move on and be strong and pray. That's the best thing to do right now. Just have faith. Don't lose hope. Like what you keep on hearing, life must go on. :) Lift yourself up and don't let other people let you down. Be a warrior in your own battle. Good luck and I hope you won't feel so down anymore. You don't have to punish yourself because you have 3 problems. Some of us has 4, 5 ,6 and more but still they can enjoy life. It's a matter of how you see yourself in your life and how your life would be better even if you have problems. CHEER UP. :) You are not alone. :)
• Philippines
25 Sep 12
a pleasant day fatlex06, after i have read your post, i suddenly remember the song "warrior is a child". i can't explain why i remember it but, perhaps, the child being described in the song was being beaten up by trials and yet even as a kid, he kept to be strong and fought the trials.
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@fatlex06 (895)
• Philippines
25 Sep 12
Oh. I have heard of that song already and that's my family's favorite song. :) The message is just really good right?
• Philippines
25 Sep 12
I guess we can't solve our problems at once. I don't know what you are exactly undergoing right now. I just know that if there's a problem, there's also a solution. If we can't solve something with plan A, then let's use plan B or plan C. We should keep on trying to solve our problems. A problem will remain a problem if we'll not face it. Life is really full of trials. We encounter one each day. I guess we are all trying to overcome these problems. Let's not give up. We have to be strong. Happy mylotting.
26 Sep 12
Nice comment! I completely agree with you on that!
@SinfulRose (3527)
• Davao, Philippines
25 Sep 12
Take a time to yourself--even just 5 minutes. You can go in places where nature is or just stay in your room where you can get some sort of little privacy. Take a deep breath and feel that while you exhale, you are releasing all negative energy inside of you. Do this again for ten times. If it helps, you can do more. Don't think of anything else aside for your breathing. When you are breathing easily now and you're automatically deep breathing on your own (you usually don't think or focus on anything on this stage aside for your breathing), look around you. And think from that perspective of not belonging to your surroundings, "what is it that you can do to fix those things you wish to fix around?". Take note of those solutions and start there. I mean, if you see your room cluttered, and you wish to fix that, then fix it. Now do those breathing again and look at your problems. Don't immediately react but observe your problems in the perspective of calmness. If you would, try imagining your problem/s as a frog that you're going to dissect in your science class. And yes, you're going to dissect the problem and study it. Usually, one big problem have small parts. And you can start by fixing those small parts of the problem until you can finally nullify those problems.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
17 Nov 12
hi, don't think of them so much it because it will stress you,if you have many problems then solve it one by one and never force or hurrying your self to resolve those problems because it will stress you,one at a time them pause and then the next problem again.
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
26 Sep 12
Hi aira! I can share you one saying that my daughter told me one day, this is a quote from one of her favorite anime character, "problems without solution does not exist in this world." A very simple quote but have a deep meaning. Take one problem at a time. And celebrate every step of the way. Before you know it all your problems are solved. We won't be able to consider ourselves normal if we haven't one. you are still lucky you have 3, it means you are a normal person. Cheer up!
• Philippines
25 Sep 12
hi there! Do pray and submit your problems to God. He will take care of you. Praying for a worry free life for you. God bless!
@GemmaR (8517)
25 Sep 12
It is horrible when we feel as though everything is going wrong in our life, because it just makes us think that if things are going so wrong now then there might not be a time that they ever start going right again. However, the thing that you need to think about is the way that you deal with everything that happens to you. Make a list of everything that is going wrong in your life, and then take a while to think about the things that you could do to either solve the problem or at least make things a little bit easier for you. There is no need to struggle on your own, so you should try and get help if there is any way that you can do so, from your friends and your family.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
25 Sep 12
Don't let these problems get you down. Make a positive attitude about life. Do not rush solving things if it is impossible. Give enough time and also, it will help you a lot if you have someone to share all your thoughts. It could somehow lessen the heaviness that you feel.
@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
25 Sep 12
There will always a time in our life when we are on the down side. I can assure you though that the moment you rise from it, you are going to become a better and stronger person. Just don't forget that no problems are thrown to us without a solution. All it takes is our patience and strength to endure.
@viju0410 (2286)
• India
25 Sep 12
Hi friend, Take it as a testing period and prepare yourself with finding options and their pros & cons of the solutions. This is how we gain experiences in real life and at a later date for a single problem we'll get too many better solutions. Life is not that easy but then once the problem is solved, you will find more happiness and feel much relaxed too. Relax, sit back, think a while and act accordingly and do not feel panicked or trapped. You are strong to swim along till you reach the shore.
@riyauro (6421)
• India
25 Sep 12
We all have problems and we all fight it. Do not let it all over you and suck you in it. You have to get strong and fight your problems. Every problem has a solution. Just need to sit and think. Concentrate on it. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead.