I'm longing him unti now!

@Daisy_22 (1230)
Philippines
September 27, 2012 7:49am CST
When can you say you're already stupid?You're already beyond boundaries? Up until now I'm still longing for him. I miss the way he smiles at me and most especially the way he teases me. I already accpted the fact that we can't be together but I can't still admit that I ended up our friendship which now I realize is more important than aiming him as my boyfriend. I keep on telling myself to move on but it's really difficult.I still have sleepless nights having him in my thoughts.Now I fully analyze and understand that loves really make you stupid.On your own situation, how stupid you were when you fell in love?
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9 responses
• Philippines
28 Sep 12
Stupid enough to realize I am :D, Hi Daisy, I think you are indeed madly,deeply,crazily in love with that guy. Oh, how lucky he is ;D. I would be happy if you can move on so you can have a sound sleep every night. There are times in life that we said love makes someone stupid but I think it's not the love that makes someone stupid but it's the lover. The one who loves makes himself/herself stupid. In your situation you better do something, just keep on thinking and controlling your own feelings. I think you let your feelings over power and controlled you. You've got to do something girl. I was in love before with my first fiance, yes my first fiance because he's my ex now. We're engaged four 4 months and broke up after it, I thought it's not easy to move but it is, just keep on focusing and thinking the brighter side of the break up or parting. Now, I realized that God really prepared the best man for me and that's my husband though he's a widower but he indeed loves me so much more than himself and I definitely knew it.
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• Philippines
28 Sep 12
In addition, you have to open up your heart to other man who's longing for you as well. :)
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@LittleMel (14053)
• Canada
28 Sep 12
I remember I was stupid enough to ignore other people's warning & my own intuition back then I thought people can change heartache after heartache, I realized, while it's true people can change some of them only change for the worse, never for the better so I decided to change myself. I no longer depend on them for my happiness /future I finished university. I got a job. I saved money for the future. got into MLM made money from it (back then it was easier than now) then I found my true love. we got married and still married 12 yrs now. remember, nothing lasts forever. not your joy and not your pain. cry if you must. release the pain and longing for him. but go out and have fun with other people one of them may just be someone you deserve and deserve you
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• Philippines
28 Sep 12
Well, i can say i became stupid when i found out that the one i love loves someone else. By that time, i really cried in silent. It is for the reason that i could't face him crying because we have no relationship at all. It was just a one sided love.
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@olliekobra1 (1826)
27 Sep 12
break ups are always hard and you do wonder if you ever have done the right thing the best thing is to go with your gut reaction if you think its better to break up then break up. Hope things work out for you as this sounds really personally to you.
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@riyauro (6428)
• India
27 Sep 12
I was in my high school when I had a big crush on a guy who was my friends brother. I used to think about him all the time. even in books I used to see him..lol and I had never had any conversation with him. He was very handsome and I would die to just have a glimpse of him. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead.
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• Philippines
27 Sep 12
I kept courting her despite being rejected several times, hoping she would change her mind and believing she loved me after all. I was wrong wholesale. Now I go away, realizing I didn't have a slim chance to win her. Painful indeed, but life must go on.
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@subhojit10 (7381)
• India
27 Sep 12
Well great to hear that u are so much in love with your boyfriend. It does happen that u forget everything and get drenched in love completely. U start dreaming about that person and feel like spending quality time with him all the time. Well i have never fallen in love and still very much single. Hope u have a great love life. What say?
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@ElicBxn (60907)
• United States
27 Sep 12
I was in my 30's before I fell in love, and once I realized he wasn't able to commit, I was able to walk away. I still see him and still care, but I've not put any hopes in him. Love is an investment. If you or he can't invest completely into the relationship, then it won't work. Many guys have a problem with that excursiveness that relationships need to work.
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@natliegleb (5184)
• India
4 Oct 12
it shows your affection and deep caring for him and that you love him a lot,its good to hear that,have that till the last