How do you find your inlaws?

@niairen01 (1018)
Philippines
September 29, 2012 1:27am CST
For those people who are already married, how do you find your inlaws? Are they terrible? Kind? Strict? Do they let you face hell just like in the movies? As for me, i'm very lucky with my inlaws, they are super kind to me most of the time. Sometimes i tell my husband why sometimes i don't want to visit his parents. You see, they treat me so special that i'm really shy for all the troubles just welcoming me. It not just me but they also treat my children super special too. Lucky me huh?! ^__^
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7 responses
30 Sep 12
I am not married yet but I am in a long term relationship and I really love my in-laws and wish I could see them more often, but they live at the other end of the province. They are all very friendly people who don't mind at all when I have to spend the night at their home over a weekend or whenever when my boyfriend is up seeing them. They give us lifts back and forth from the train station too which is very kind of them when we don't have a car (:
@ARIES1973 (9539)
• Legaspi, Philippines
29 Sep 12
hi niairen! I am as lucky as you. My husband is the youngest among his siblings and his sisters love him so much. He is the only one who has children and my in-laws really love my children. They are always there to help us in times of needs. Sometimes, I can hear some of my office mates talking negative things about their in-laws and when they ask my opinion about it I would just say, Oh I can't relate because I have very nice in-laws.
@Reneelao (223)
• Philippines
29 Sep 12
wow... you are very lucky to have a very nice in-laws. me, they are fine .. but not better than yours.
@blinjk (613)
• Philippines
29 Sep 12
You are so lucky.I think they are also kind and welcomes me at their house.But I am not that comfortable enough to be with them.That is why,I do not go there when my husband goes there.
• China
29 Sep 12
Hi Dear niaren01,you are so lucky that your inlaws love you so much,as you well know,the relationship between wife and mother in law is very complicated,so I think for you it is a good sign that your mother in law like you,that is a good chance for you and you should visit your husband's parents more often then you and your mother in law will get more closer.
@Paper_Doll (2375)
• Philippines
29 Sep 12
Mine is the usual inlaws you saw on tv. Although I did not expect to have this kind of relationship with them, I just can't do anything about it since they are my husband's family. My mom told me not to speak myself and just ignore everything. She said everything will change as years passed by. Well, I am really hoping.
@subhojit10 (7382)
• India
29 Sep 12
Well great to hear about your in-laws who are so much supportive and have accepted u as their daughter. It is very rare to find co operative and friendly in-laws these days and of course u are lucky enough to have such in-laws around u. Without the support of the in-laws it is very difficult to adjust to a new environment as they are one who would help u to be comfortable and accept the new house as their own. Well i am not married but my sister's in-laws are not that co operative like u and good that they do live far away from her. What say?