we are all alike, when courting or posing...
By Nnaemeka
@mydanods (6513)
Nigeria
September 29, 2012 2:42am CST
Have you noticed. When most men are excited, with a beer in hand, they tend to lean their backs against a wall, one leg on the floor and the other folded in a V-style resting on the wall. When I was on campus, we used to say when you see a man with such a pose, then you know he is trying to make a fashion statement. On the other hand, when a man is courting a girl, his voice becomes subdued and most times, he tends to want to talk like a woman, michael jackson style. I used to laugh over these observations but i have not explained them. has anyone noticed?
1 response
@alvinmendez69 (28)
• Philippines
29 Sep 12
I notice some of the same thing. Tends to want to talk like a woman is a way expressing yourself that you understand them. lol. But that is a good way to catch girl's attention.
@mydanods (6513)
• Nigeria
29 Sep 12
and do you know, it works. works again and again. But i realized that the persons who do it do not even know they are doing it. it just comes naturally. they weren't taught you have to stand like this, like that, to catch attention. we all just act the same way and talk the same way. eventually, art catches us and tells us what we do and it becomes the norm. that is what art does - just tells us what we're doing and make it everyday activity.
love you.
