What are your ways to go and talk to an unknown person?

India
September 30, 2012 6:34am CST
What are your ways to go and talk to an unknown person? This is a quality of communication skill also when you can easily talk with an unknown person whether girl or boy. May be you are comfortable in talking with any unknown person, but what about talking to an unknown opposite gender person, are you comfortable in that also. How do you initiate your talk to him or her in general? Share your experiences and views.
3 responses
@baby000 (29)
• United States
30 Sep 12
Well, that is kind of tricky. Me personally, if I have a question or something to talk to an unknown person about, I will go up to them and talk about that. I mean I don't see how that can be difficult unless you have feelings for the person and you're nervous to talk to him or her. First off, you can start by making "small talk" and going from there. I mean your best bet is to just talk to the person; work up the nerve to do so. If you're shy, then you just have to do it if you really want that person in your life or something. I am assuming you're referring to a person you like; in that case, it is better you just go up to them and talk. If it is just a regular person, same thing, go up and ask them a question or something you know. If you're shy, by practicing speaking to people, you'll be able to get over your shyness pretty fast. Good luck and I hope you work up the nerve to speak to people you don't know.
1 person likes this
• India
1 Oct 12
Thanks for your precious response.
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
30 Sep 12
Well thank u for posting this interesting discussion. It is always normal when people feel strange to strike a conversation with an unknown person as they feel if the conversation will be successful or not. But in my case, if there is a need to strike a conversation with a stranger then i never feel it difficult to approach that person as if i do not do it, then it will affect my intentions of getting the work done. What say?
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• India
30 Sep 12
Thanks for the response.
@meowchie (992)
• Philippines
30 Sep 12
Everything should start with a SMILE :) The moment that person sees my smile, it's a go signal I'm initiating a conversation. It is said that a SMILE is soundless but it's meaning is accurate. haha :) I have always been a Ms. Congeniality so talking with strangers regardless of gender,age or profession was something basic for me and I'm loving it. Just make yourself comfortable and let that person feel comfortable with you too. You'd end the talk fine and you will surely be remembered :D
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• India
30 Sep 12
Thanks for the response. Very useful information. But some time people though take a smile in a wrong way.