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@jazzyrae (1745)
United States
October 1, 2012 1:54pm CST
when is it time to talk to the doctor about a fea.r of being unable to conceive. I mean and I have been a been on at it for 8 months. basically a year if you take away that 3 months I was on birth control for a cyst. it's just so frustrating day get your hopes up and you can help me get your hopes up and then your help should get shut down.
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@ShyBear88 (59282)
• Sterling, Virginia
2 Oct 12
I would talk to a doctor when it has been 1 year since you stopped birth control. For some women it just takes longer. Some times you just need to find when you are ovulating because it changes from month to month. Some times just trying to have a baby and thinking about it gets in the way. When your not thinking and not trying for alot of women it comes easier to get pregnant.
@jazzyrae (1745)
• United States
3 Oct 12
I know the anticipation just kills me though
@ShyBear88 (59282)
• Sterling, Virginia
4 Oct 12
I know both of my pregnancy where killing me up till I had both of my babies. Having them both 18 months apart making the waiting endless. But soon it'll be over and then you might be wishing you where still pregnant. Every time I got to the leave of I can't wait any more I would start knitting or talking to someone and it helped.
@trisha27 (3494)
• United States
1 Oct 12
I believe most doctors ask that you try for at least a year before you see a doctor about trouble conceiving. I have the same fear of not being able to conceive. I have not seen the doctor yet to see what the problem is because of my fear, but then I also found out I have thyroid problems, so that is what could have possibly played the roll in me unable to get pregnant. I say give it time, at least a year. Or you could get it checked out now and go to the doctor and see what they tell you. I know once I get my thyroids under control I plan on going to see the doctor with my hubby to see what we can do to increase our chances of conceiving. Its been 3 years since we've been trying. It could be something as simple as you not ovulating, I have a friend at work who was told that ovulation was the problem and she was put on medicine to help her ovulate. She is still trying, but don't give up and good luck.
@jazzyrae (1745)
• United States
3 Oct 12
I'm actually in impatient person so coarse the weight just kills me. I know you know sometimes it doesn't take a year or longer to have a chance. I'm a big believer in fate that know God has a plan then it'll happen when it supposed to happen. good luck to you too though