youth could be foolhardy but we have reason!

@mydanods (6513)
Nigeria
October 2, 2012 8:14pm CST
I wonder how many of us have experienced scenes like this: "I love you, joy." "I love you too." "Love you!" "You too!" "Love you, love you..." "Love you more!" When I was younger, I thought loved solved everything. When you are in love, then problems can always be discussed, settled. That was until third parties came into the parley. "Look at it this way, the both of you are not mature for this relationship..." Yawn. "The both of you are not mature for marriage." "But I love her, and she loves me." Weeping. "I know. Think about when the babies start coming, insurance..." "I love. Believe me. From my heart!" Young men in this condition are beyond help, beyond redemption. That is the power of love. I made the same mistake. Not once, not twice...I was always quick to tell them they do not understand; love doesn't lie. So, who is lying here? I believe in love and it doesn't lie. So, when problems come between lovers, who is to blame?
1 response
• United States
3 Oct 12
I would say that both sides are to blame. If a relationship is going to work, couples must be able to get past that "we breakup whenever we fight" stage. I have been with my girl for over 3 years, and we have fought many times. But whenever we fight , breaking up is never a solution. When i told her that i loved her, i meant it, and uncondtional love means that no matter what she says or does, i will always love her. and we arent even married yet! and so far so good! =]