Remembering how it feels like to be with someone...

@chiyosan (29383)
Philippines
October 11, 2012 9:08pm CST
Its been a while since i have had someone to "care" for me. A boyfriend, a partner - that is what i meant. I have been with no BF for about a year now and its quite something that i have really not thought about until someone showed me that I a special, and important. Now I can not really picture myself being without someone to hold my hand, and so on. I just cannot fathom anymore or maybe i have mixed emotions right now as to the whole thing. What about you, if you have a partner, married or with a boyfriend or girlfriend... right now - do you remember what it was like to be single? what do you miss being single? If you are single and have had partners before.. do you miss being with someone? The feeling that there is one person that loves you and cares for you and will hold your hand?
9 responses
@JijiXcebu (129)
• Philippines
12 Oct 12
It is wonderful to have someone who you can share anything with. I look at a partner as someone like a bestfriend, but more intimate. Someone you can share and laugh and not be embarrassed with whatever embarrassing things you do with that person is because it's exciting when your with them.
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@chiyosan (29383)
• Philippines
14 Oct 12
it is true. i probably did just missed those times when you are able to share everything with this person because you know he or she is the one who is always with you. =)
12 Oct 12
I miss being with my wife we are living separately now.I never thought of my life when I was single,spending my life with my wife is the happiest day of my life that I never felt when I was still single. In most cases not much thing I miss when I was single. I miss the day with my wife and being with her will still be my inner wish in my life. Happy mylotting!
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@chiyosan (29383)
• Philippines
14 Oct 12
my bf asked me how it feels like to be in a relationship again. it got me to think actually about what his question was... it was really something i had to think about. hehe hmm its been a while just about a year actually that i have been single and well i don't remember how it was like being single because i never really felt alone during those time... =)
• India
12 Oct 12
Staying single and staying in relationship are both different prospect. When you are single you are free, independent, you have your own choice, whatever you do, wherever you go no problem. But sometimes you will wish that if there would someone you would share everything. When you are in relationship you get someone's love, share your happiness and sorrow. But sometimes you feel that why to share decision. There will be much more Do & Don't. Do this, do that. Don't do this, don't do that. Sometimes your loyalty will be tested. And much more.. Now you think which is much enjoyable..
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@chiyosan (29383)
• Philippines
14 Oct 12
well yes, there are quite a lot of differences in every aspect of our lives, singlehood, being in a relationship, etc. I guess its really just about how we are with these. it is true, we can get used to being with someone if we have been dependent on them, we can be happy being single as well if we love our freedom and so on..
@jaiho2009 (39021)
• Philippines
12 Oct 12
I am single again for many years (almost a decade now of separation) I live being single and I really enjoy being single again. Being single is a choice and I discovered the happiness and contentment of being single.
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@obe212003 (2302)
• Philippines
12 Oct 12
I have been married for almost 20 years now.. but i got married late at 31, and enjoyed my bachelor days for too long, lol! Probably having enjoyed what life has to offer for a single guy. When i got married, i sure do miss doing the things i did as a single guy, but nothing is compared to spending time with my kids.
@chiyosan (29383)
• Philippines
14 Oct 12
thank you obe for your response. =) oh having your wife and kids to be with you really is the best there is in life. =) i do think that yes though you enjoy the single life, but nothing is comparable to what happiness your child can bring you.
@gaiza12 (4889)
• Philippines
14 Oct 12
I do have a bf now but I feel like I'm single still. He's not here with me physically to take care of me, no one to hold hands to, no shoulder that you can lean on when you need a shoulder to cry, no one to spend happy memories with. This is one of the disadvantages of being in a long distance relationship .
@portisray (503)
• Philippines
14 Oct 12
I haven't been with someone just a month ago... And I miss the feeling of someone to care for... I miss the feeling of having someone to hold on to when I sleep at night... But I didn't thought that it would end up in bitterness... And just by reading your simple post.... I feel like I'm going to cry because i really miss HIM....
@GemmaR (8526)
12 Oct 12
I am with a partner at the moment and have been with him for almost four years. I remember before we got together and I was feeling quite down about everything because of the fact that I had been single for a long time previously. I think that you should stop thinking about the reasons that you want a partner, because this just simply makes you remember that you don't have one. Instead you should concentrate on simply living your life and spending time with the people who you love, as this would make things a lot easier for you.
@Tongcv (173)
• China
12 Oct 12
A person over a person's happiness and the happiness of two people,two people over there,so as long as you are happy monounsaturated single line.