I Hate being in love.

October 12, 2012 11:56am CST
Hi Myloters, I just want to share about me hating LOVE... Actually, I'm a sweet girl but the problem is, I'm not expressive.. So, I just keep my sweetness to myself... :( Does loving someone really needs sweetness?? This is why I hate being in love because you have to express your feelings through actions. Yesterday, Me and my boyfriend had a fight... I hate when he hugs me in front of the people... I don't know.. I just don't like being hugged in public.. or being kissed in public... Am I over reacting? or what? I don't know.. Do I have to change? Honestly, I'm not good in relationships.. maybe I was born like that...
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10 responses
@Badkid (235)
• Philippines
29 Nov 12
Dont get angry to your bf when your bf kissed or hugged you on a public place.you should be proud of it because, that means he loves you very much and he's proud being with you.there's nothing to be shy with love. If I were you,I would be greatful when my bf did that to me on a public places.
4 Dec 12
I know.. but it feels like he's bragging having me.. I don't like the feelings... Should I be happy about it??
• Philippines
14 Oct 12
Don't hate being in love. In fact, you must be very lucky experiencing love. Because many people were finding ways just to find their love. :)
17 Oct 12
But being in love to someone doesn't belong to you is just hurtful you know.... breakups, cool offs... I just want to meet the right guy... :)
@marguicha (215688)
• Chile
12 Oct 12
I think that you and your boyfriend have to talk this over. Each person has its own sense of intimacy and while it is usual that people hug and kiss in public, it much depends on their personalities. You don`t have to change, but you have to tell him that it doesn`t have anything to do with your love for him.
17 Oct 12
We already talked about this... He's ok with it but, I can feel that he's not... :( He's not open to me...
• Bangladesh
13 Oct 12
Conservatism - Conservatism in being pampered.
Love is not in outer actions. I like your conservatism in being pampered.
17 Oct 12
Thanks for liking... :)
• India
13 Oct 12
Hi friend, i think your activity is not wrong. It is not a good manner to hug or kiss in the public, really your activity is good and there is nothing wrong in your fight with your bf. Hope he will change his activities here after. Don't worry for this issue. He will realize his fault and come back to you
17 Oct 12
Really? whew! I thought I should be the one who will change... thanks.. if he can't deal with that so maybe I should break up with him. :)
13 Oct 12
Maybe you idea is different.You can communication.Love is beautiful.
17 Oct 12
Yah! love is beautiful... I think we were just not meant for each other...
• Philippines
29 Nov 12
I guess love is not really needed to be showy. We can love someone on our own way. Like you dont like showy.
• Portugal
12 Oct 12
sweetness is needed. because that way your boyfriend will know if you love him or not. i understand that maybe you feel embarassed that he hugs and kisses you in public. maybe you feel that others will look at you. but dont worry about that. to hug and kiss him is the way to show that you love him. try to make a little effort for him. if you dont feel ok kissing him in public just hold his hand when you are out together and give him kisses in his cheeks sometimes. slowly you will feel more comfortable and maybe you can give him a little kiss in his lips. start slow^^
17 Oct 12
Maybe hold hand will do for now... I can't kiss him in public yet... :) I hope someday I will feel comfortable kissing him in public..
@HomeBase (1153)
• United States
12 Oct 12
First of all, don't beat yourself up for being who you are. If you don't like something, you just don't like it, period. You have a right to like and dislike what you want. Don't say that you are not good in relationships, you are fine in relationships, there are just certain things that you don't like. You have a right to be you. You are not over-reacting. Perhaps your current boyfriend is not the one for you. That may be hard for you to accept, but sometimes people just don't fit together. I know plenty of people who hate being hugged and/or kissed in public. They don't like it. Period. That is their right. If the person that they are in a relationship with cannot deal with that, then more than likely the relationship is not meant to be in the long run.
17 Oct 12
Thanks HomeBase... Love your response... :)
@riyauro (6421)
• India
12 Oct 12
love is beautiful. It is the means of all goodness in the world. How can you not like love. I think it is cute of your boyfriend to hug you and kiss you in public. Many girls die to have that love and you are one who does not like it.. ooh so sad. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead.
12 Oct 12
Really? girls like that? hmmm Well, I should be thankful enough that my boyfriend is sweet... what am i thinking!!