would you date a guy that couldnt speak? ^^

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Portugal
October 12, 2012 1:34pm CST
hi guys would you date someone that couldnt speak? about me if i liked a guy its ok even if he couldnt speak. if i felt i loved him i would try everything to be with him^^ we never know what can happen so i dont judge mute, deaf, blind people. also people with disabilities i never treat them bad because we never know what can happen in our future. so for me i would even learn sign language if was needed as long as he loved me and i loved him too^^ what about you guys? would you date a guy that couldnt speak? please share
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@challs12 (549)
• Malaysia
13 Oct 12
Well it's depends on you if you willing to accept someone even though you know he has weaknesses. It's a kind hearted of you. Actually all the weaknesses that someone has in terms of physical like deaf, mute, handicap, etc, is not what they want and it's was God order to give him such weaknesses. I think it's not a problem at all to date people like this and even getting into marriage. We the people who has all the ability should thank to God for giving us all the complete physical function and when time comes to test on our thankful to God, we shouldn't refuse it.
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• Portugal
13 Oct 12
its true. they dont choose what will happen. it just happens. so if we love a guy who has a health problem we should be with him. it doesnt matter if other people will say bad about us. what is important is to be happy with a guy we love. im happy you think it isnt a problem to date someone with health problems. you are a good guy.
@challs12 (549)
• Malaysia
20 Oct 12
Lol, it's not me that is a good guy, but it's you the good girl. You have brought up this discussion, it's what you have in your mind and heart. Actually there will be some stress and challenge though we do accept people with health problem or handicap person. At some extend, we have to learn how to interact with them like the deaf and mute person. But it's no big deals if you can be very happy with their smiles. About what people say, I think it's not a big problem cause if you can live your life happily together. I have seen one blind man with his hand being hold by one cute little girl and the other one hand hold by pretty lady. I think they are his daughter and wife.
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• Portugal
27 Oct 12
aw thats so cute^^ im really happy that that guy could find a pretty woman who loved him by who he is^^ for me i think that even with health problems they are human just like us^^ their personality can be like ours. and what we love about someone is mostly the personality. you have a good heart ^^ and sure if you date someone who cant hear or speak you have to learn how to communicate ^^ but i guess thats the easy part about loving someone.
@meowchie (992)
• Philippines
14 Oct 12
I am really sad :( Coz I remember so well I responded a reply to this discussion but when I checked now it's not posted :( arhgggggggg
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• Portugal
16 Oct 12
aw meow dont be sad sometimes its the connection in mylot that isnt good. that happened to me too. writing a reply and then nothing appears and i have to reply again. dont worry. im happy that you always take time to reply to my discussions^^ you are an amazing friend have a happy day sweet friend
@swissheart (6246)
• Romania
13 Oct 12
it depends. I don't consider looks that important. I don't exagerate when I say I could fall in love with someone else's personality. so let's say I knew sign language ( this would be a way to communicate with him). in this conditions if I liked his personality than sure I would consider dating him it's wrong to ditch or judge others just because they are disabled. as you said...it never knows
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• Portugal
13 Oct 12
im happy that wouldnt be a problem for you to date a guy who didnt speak. its true that we never know what can happen so. even if you didnt know sign language you could always learn to be with him. for love we can do everything right?^^ thanks so much for your answer.
@dpk262006 (56098)
• Delhi, India
13 Oct 12
Hi there! Your thoughts are very noble and apprexiable. I understand that the one who cannot speak needed to be given support. I would not mind dating a woman who can not speak and speech difficulties.
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• Portugal
13 Oct 12
thanks so much^^ im happy that for you it wouldnt be a problem to date a girl who couldnt speak. it shows that you are a great guy. i wish soon you can find a good girlfriend who values you. good guys are rare and when we find it we shouldnt let them go. have a happy weekend
@CODYMAC (1357)
• San Diego, California
12 Oct 12
My fiancee hardly ever speaks when she is angry with me, which is most of the time... No but seriously, if she was not able to speak, I know that I would have the same feelings for her. I think also that it is just love that makes a person not worry about things like that. I would over look a speaking issue before I would over look a mole on the nose... Kidding, kidding...
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• Portugal
13 Oct 12
ahah cody yes sure a mole on the nose i guess the girl would remind you of the witch of snow white right? ahah anyway she could always make a surgery to take of that horrible mole. who would want a big mole and looking like a witch? ahah anyway im happy you would still love your fiancee no matter happened^^ you are an amazing boyfriend. i wish you and her be so happy
@subhojit10 (7384)
• India
12 Oct 12
Thanks for sharing this discussion. Well glad to hear that u are very much fine dating a guy in spite of his disabilities after all love is all about judging one's heart and not one's physical appearance. It is very important to measure the amount of love in one's heart and not whether he has good looks or money. What say?
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• Portugal
13 Oct 12
im not dating a guy with disabilities. but if i loved a guy with disabilities and he also loved me i wouldnt mind. what matters to me is to have a boyfriend that loves me. thats the most important for me. thanks anyway for your nice words. anyone who dates someone with disabilities is because really love him. because sadly in this world there are always mean people who will judge you. but who cares? love is the most important.
@ajk111 (2527)
12 Oct 12
I once dated a mime artist. she ran me over on her bike. she mimed it was my fault because i did not hear her ring her mime bell. I got my revenge by hiring a hitman to shoot her. in respect to her i got him to use a silencer. i do love a bit of irony.
• Portugal
13 Oct 12
you are not with her anymore? i guess it was a funny way that she made a sign to you saying it was your fault. it seems like a movie. when you say you got your revenge is a way you found to show her she was important to you. anyway why arent you with her anymore? what happened?
@ajk111 (2527)
13 Oct 12
she realised i was an idiot and signed some terrible comments.
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@mysdianait (64067)
• Italy
13 Oct 12
When you pass 'go', collect 200 smarties
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• United States
13 Oct 12
Honestly speaking no I would not. I need to talk to someone and I ned someone to return the conversation. i need to be stimulated by the voice of the perosn who is talking to me. silence would not work for me. I am notsaying I could not be friends with this person at all. but,in a realtionship not a chance.
• Portugal
13 Oct 12
i respect your opinion. im happy that you are honest enough to say what you would really do. i wish you have a good boyfriend who loves you very much. i understand that you wouldnt do that because of what would others say but because its important to you to hear the guy you love voice. thanks so much for sharing your points of view. have a happy weekend.
@jaiho2009 (39021)
• Philippines
13 Oct 12
Like what you have wrote- if I like the guy, maybe I will consider dating with him. Love doesn't know any boundaries and we know that there are people who married to someone who is blind, deaf and mute or disabled ones.
• Portugal
13 Oct 12
why do you say consider dating? you dont know for sure what would you do? you are right love doesnt know boundaries. what really matters is to be happy. it doesnt matter if the guy has a health problem as long as he loves us. im just sad that for some people its just a no to date people with disabilities just because they are afraid of what others will say. who cares?