love story other way round
By mayajain49
@mayajain49 (1)
India
October 13, 2012 12:01pm CST
hi friends,its a love story and i just wanted to share it with you people.A girl mala and a guy sumit were in love since their schooling and loved blossomed in college.there after boy went to USA. THey mainted their love through phone and skype for 1 year. Then one day sumit opened malas facebook account and saw some unknow guy writing hi to her. that time boy was paasing through miserable times there lot of pressure of not having job and lonelyness. In these circumstances and lot of gap between them since one year it made him to think that the girl is cheating on her. he asked her about all these in very angry way. Though girl was cent percent true to him,but these incident hurted her a lot.she thought even after 5 years of dedication and love if he thinks in such a way there is no point in continuing relation as the most practile decesion been taken.she broked up with him.it was difficult for both of them.tehen witin a year girl married someone else hoping soon with new life she will forget about her ex.But thouh out her married life of one year from the honeymoon to every other think she thinked of her ex though with her husband.she is not able to overcome with all these even afte two years On the other hand boy also remebers girl a lot.As such girls husband is nice but how much time of ur life u can spend like these.so guys tell what should girl do.?
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6 responses
@athena012 (20)
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14 Oct 12
hi mayajain :) maybe the girl must tell to her husband what she feel. For me, feeling that way is so unfair for his husband. If the things that happen will be good. She can go back to her ex and live peacefully.
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@kaka135 (14916)
• Malaysia
14 Oct 12
Yeah, I agree with you. Though the girl may make some mistakes by not thinking properly before she got married, she needs to find a way to solve the problem. I always think one should be faithful to her own feeling, if she doesn't love her husband, both of them will not be happy staying together. Of course, the girl may not be happy as well, even if she goes back to her ex, if they do not think properly and be more mature now. I think the girl really needs to think properly, what she really wants now, whether she really loves her ex or she just thought she loves him.
@soorajsrs7srs (636)
• India
14 Oct 12
she should live in the real world. now everything is her husband,not ex. so must under stood the situations and bear everything for a successful married life
@urbandekay (18278)
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13 Oct 12
This girl is very self-centred not to understand her bf's anger. Now she choose to get married and must stick with it. She says she cannot forget her bf but she can, she means she does not want to, time for her to grow up and accept the consequences of her actions.
The moving finger writes and having writ moves on
And all your piety nor wit, can lure it back to cancel half a line
Nor all your tears wash out one word of it
all the best, urban
@riyauro (6421)
• India
13 Oct 12
I think this was a hasty decision the girl made and I think that if she has got a nice husband than she should forget sumit. She must realize that she is spoiling things herself. she has made a mistake by getting married and now she is making a mistake by thinking about her ex. It is time to come into real life and not in the dream. accept that she is married and have a happy married by loving her husband and children. forget about the ex. he will get his better half in time. It is time to move on.....
Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead. 
@lonlyheart11 (49)
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14 Oct 12
Dear Mayajaimi ,
First thing that they were having a really great relation , and distance somehow break every long distance relation even though how strong it is misunderstanding some how broke it . The problem that happened was a bit different and girl should not have reacted like that though she was right that even after 5 years of relation he dosent even Trust her , i think they should go with the flow no pain last forever give it some more years it will heal and memories will start getting blur otherwise she should tell all this to his Husband and if he co-operative then he would sort out something otherwise she should wait time will make her forget all the memories
Happy Mylotting
@kokomo (1867)
• Philippines
14 Oct 12
The girl should not hurried up in looking for another guy just to escape the misery she has been experienced to her ex boyfriend. They should talk about their conflicts. One of them must reach out.Looking for another one is not a solution for their problem knowing that they really love each other. They just have a little misunderstanding and yet it was broaden when one did not reached out and do something to solve that misunderstanding.
