To that guy in our class.
@MarinellaPetBay (89)
Philippines
October 17, 2012 9:27am CST
At first his NOT the guy who I think I will fall for, because he is NOT the type of guy i dream of. EXACTLY NOT!! As time past by (a week) We became friends and I think his a great guy, he's kind, friendly, FUNNY, and he is also good in class.. Some of are classmates link us with each other, but we are NOT affected of it. We stay the same as before or maybe We became more closer(but not that close) to each other.. haha.. and the FUNNY part is he is riding on the JOKES of his friends.. Then sometimes I can feel his sweetness(today?!).. But at this time I don't want to fall for him because I'm not sure if he really likes me or what?. Or maybe someone(girls[my friend] that fall for him too) will be hurt if I REALLY fall for him.. and I REALLY DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO... Is it okey if I stay away from him to protect myself from being hurt?? but if I do that I know I will also be hurt because I think I really fall for him already.
my letter for him:
I think and I want to fall in-love with you, but you know I don't wanna take the risk of being hurt again, by a guy who I....(never-mind).. haha.. I just want to know the truth.. I want to know it from you.. But I am really scared of asking you, because I'm scared of your answer. :(
**Am I the only one who feel this way??! Can someone help me to decide on what I am suppose to do? What is the right thing to do?? I really need your help!!
7 responses
@bluesea3 (167)
• Indonesia
10 Dec 12
fall in love, very usual thing. The attractive thing is some facts like very dislike to be love, hate to be love, enemy to be couple, etc. So, i suggest to consider your heart. Loving someone is right for everyone. Scare or not, there're only 2 answer, yes or not. So, why did you wait for or scare? Talk to him with your body language and get the answer.
@MarinellaPetBay (89)
• Philippines
10 Dec 12
uhhmm..if i do that you think i wont look annoying to him?? :(
@MarinellaPetBay (89)
• Philippines
10 Dec 12
ohh..okey!! thank you for that.. i really appreciate that thing..i'll try my best to do this thing :)
@bluesea3 (167)
• Indonesia
10 Dec 12
I think, showing love in BODY LANGUAGE won't make you to be something annoying. It's one of girls abilities to declare their heart. More over, declaring for love is more effective if you did it with your sincerity and kindness for your couple on your side. Absolutely, i suggest to make a serious relationship, don't be his satisfying tool only. Respect your self by choosing not only "fake love" that only concerned desire, physic, lust, etc. Without commitment, men will be the one who get major benefits.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
16 Nov 12
Love is about taking risks, too. We can never be always be sure that the person that we love, will love us back. I think, you just need to wait for the truth. If he feels the same way towards you, then Congratulations!
But if it turns the other way, well, it is not the end of the world. I assume that you are only in your early 20's , and you have your whole life ahead.
But if it turns the other way, well, it is not the end of the world. I assume that you are only in your early 20's , and you have your whole life ahead. @MarinellaPetBay (89)
• Philippines
16 Nov 12
thank for that comment :)) i really appreciate that.. i'm only 17.. hahaha:))
@mrswhitfield (2044)
• Indonesia
11 Dec 12
Ooooh haha so this is the 1st post about this guy in your calss
don't stay away from him,, who knows if he feels the same? if you stay awaw he would think that you don't like other (your friends in class)linking you both. Stay cool 
don't stay away from him,, who knows if he feels the same? if you stay awaw he would think that you don't like other (your friends in class)linking you both. Stay cool @MarinellaPetBay (89)
• Philippines
13 Dec 12
but i am really scared of what will happen next.. i don't like to be hurt :(
@shahjehan (8)
•
18 Oct 12
well MarinellaPetBay
My advised to you is that,as you mentioned that you liked him,you do one thing,you engaged your one friend with him with the planning that is he love you or not.You ask your friend to ask tactfully his thoughts about you,whether he loves you or not.
I think that the way you come to know his feeling about you,and after knowing you can make your decision easily about him...
@MarinellaPetBay (89)
• Philippines
19 Oct 12
thank you so much for your advise:))i'll try to make it...but at this time i'm stayy away from him..:(
@ltpotter (177)
• United States
11 Dec 12
Go for it. Why waste a chance of a lifetime at one true love. You have to go for it. All the wise people would say go for it. Who cares what other people think. If your one of your friends have already fallen for him and haven't said any thing. You better claim him first.
