something confuses

China
October 18, 2012 6:41am CST
In recent days,I'm so tired as I'm going to searching a work that fit me.though I would leave my university the next session,I think my ability is so poor that I can't do anything,my school life is so bored that I do read novels all the time.I don't learn anything ,I'm a bad student.my english is poor,my technology ability is poor...and I can't pay attention to my learning continues several hours.I'm a loser,what's more?I even can't afford myself I doubt!so what should I do?I must choose a right way to start my life.but what's the correct one for me?
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6 responses
• Romania
19 Oct 12
You are going through a bad mood. It's ok. Now, what you should do is to take a break. Take some days just for you while you think about yourself. The right way is to finish your school and the opportunities will arise, you will see that. I felt the same like you. I had a lot of problems but, with some luck and ambition, I can reorganized my life. Keep calm and enjoy your life.
@jaiho2009 (39077)
• Philippines
18 Oct 12
Try something new, something that you think really fits your ability or talent. Maybe you have some skills that doesn't fit the education you've attained. Why not try to explore other things different from what you've studied, maybe then you will find out what you really want and what you really like to do.
@kokomo (1868)
• Philippines
18 Oct 12
I think the first thing that you should do is to help yourself build self esteem and believe in your ability to do things that makes you satisfied in your life. Do not stress too much yourself with those what ifs.I think you should pray and ask God for guidance and ask him to enlighten you not to be so pitiful with yourself and have the courage to face all your challenges in life everyday.
• United States
18 Oct 12
I think the first thing your going to need to do is stop beating yourself up so much. ow can you call yourself a loser for no good reason. that is not who you really are. your not able to focus on your studies because your killing your own spirit. get up and look around an think of all the people who wish they could live where you live. have what you have and are free to do what you do. then go outside and take a wal and plan out the rest of your day. not tomorrow just today and try to stick to your plans. after that do this every day for s week and you should feel better. also call someone n tell them how your feeling as well.. take care.
@caopaopao (1044)
• China
18 Oct 12
I think the best way is that you start studying hard now, and try your best to catch up with the other students. But it's never too late to learn. You can improve your ability during doing your future job. Don't worry so much, I believe everyone can make a living if he tries best. The experience can be only gained with great effort. Don't say that you are a loser, if you believe you can do well, you will do well. You must have confidence with you. Enjoy yourself!
@SIMPLYD (75375)
• Philippines
18 Oct 12
My friend, maybe you are having a course that doesn't fit your interest. You should choose one that fits your interest thus, you can easily understand the subjects and know them by heart. Consequently, you will get good grades, graduate and be able to get a good job. And don't forget to be always studious and ask God's guidance.