He just left :)

October 19, 2012 8:28am CST
people may come and go on our lives. Sometimes they decided to go because they know it's better than to stay. At first, it was so hard for me to accept the fact that the person i know loves me and i love just go. Recently, again and again it happened to me. I don't know why. Before i thought that he just forget me, he didn't give value to our friendship but awhile ago i was enlightened when my Prof. in Biology gave a well reason, close reality explanation for that. His topic was all about cell and he explained lysis thing/ death of cells, he said that at first, the hands of a baby inside the womb during the first months are only like a boxing gloves. The hands don't have its form, but as the time goes by, little by little the hands are having its good form. The reason of its formation is because of the cell's self death. In able for the hands to have a perfect form, the cells that are in the middle or cells that are excess vanish away. Like life"people go because they know it's for our own good, that it's better. And i want to thank God for giving me a broader understanding and for having forgiveness in my heart
5 responses
@jenny1015 (13394)
• Philippines
21 Oct 12
People come and go. And if some really special people leave us, there are reasons for it. We may not understand their reasons but life shouldn't stop, right? Life goes on with or without them.
26 Oct 12
yes ma'am, 'Life shouldn't stop" because it is a part of our life. We have to stand still. Thank you
@jenny1015 (13394)
• Philippines
26 Oct 12
Hi, Chrisjane! I hope you'll enjoy being with the Mylot Community by joining in different discussions. Hoping to read more discussions from you. Happy Mylotting!
27 Oct 12
Yes Jenny, I'm starting to love this site. This site helps me to get some advices from friends who willingly read my discussions. Thank you and God bless you
@Jenniffe (37)
25 Oct 12
The rhythem of life lies in the different people walked into our life, then left. Just like an old chinese saying,"there is no never-ending feast", what we can do is to value the time we spend togrther. After someone left, even one who we love or loves us,life is going on. And I believe they want us happy.
26 Oct 12
yes, i believe that life goes on whatever happens. And there is also a saying "The only permanent thing in this world is change" we cannot force a person to stay. All we can do is to react and learn on that kind of scenario. Thank you for the comment. Godbless
@missjahn (4578)
• Philippines
24 Oct 12
good virtue you have there. keep it up. when you forgive, though you cannot forget it in abrupt time, uhm but sooner or later, vague memory of him would be just apparent to you. the pain will go to along with this. so keep on the mending for reasonable reasons. :)
26 Oct 12
Thank you ma'am. I appreciated your thought. It's hard if is still keep the sadness in my heart. The cure for this sadness is forgiveness. And now, thanks God that he gave me an open mind and heart, it helps me to have a good point of view
• Indonesia
23 Oct 12
People come and go on our live. It is difficult for me when someone go on from my life. especially, they are friend, family and the others. I fell sad when someone go on of my life.
26 Oct 12
Yes, but i believe that thing happens for a good reason. Always be optimistic if something good or bad happens in our lives. It helps us to be strong and makes us learn. God bless and thank you
@arizen (152)
• Philippines
19 Oct 12
thank you for such a wonderful analogy of cells to life. People come and go. And life goes on because we do not have much choice but to go on. Eventually, it will turn out that your life's design is meant to be like that.
20 Oct 12
yes ,indeed.:) thank you. i appreciated your response. Godbless