What Makes Him Melt

Philippines
October 20, 2012 7:41am CST
Doing things that he loves to see, hear and feel... A guy love to see their partners with their best looks whatever the situation is; love to hear sweet for nothing but with great sense of humor; feeling of belonging by means of listening to him in any aspects of life- means offering you ears and shoulder for him to lean on.. do something unexpected that will make his heartbeat fast and just a few harmless little moves that play dirty with his mind..but most of all believing in Him by means of supporting and understanding him and his need. Generally speaking man's weakness lies on us-their partners, it takes two to tango. I know you have your own style,ideas and suggestion; feel free and let have it.
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8 responses
• Philippines
20 Oct 12
hi aliah, My EX melts every time he sees me specially if he did something I don't like he wanted to melt and disappear on the spot Well I can't share more on this maybe one day happy mylotting
• Philippines
20 Oct 12
Hello bhabycatch, Oh my, is he like an ice cream that melts in your mouth not in your hand hahahaha
@jaiho2009 (39001)
• Philippines
20 Oct 12
He disappeared like a pimple once honey saw him peeping in.
• Philippines
20 Oct 12
he is like nike I just do it
@jaiho2009 (39001)
• Philippines
20 Oct 12
I have wrote once that, a man needs a wife not only for his own desires but also a second mom who can take care of everything. Who can make meals for him, wash his laundry, listen when he has problems (office/works related and even with friends disagreement) Someone whom he can run too when he needed a shoulder, someone to make him feel alright. A wife is a friend,a sister, a mother, a lover and an enemy rolled into one.
• Philippines
20 Oct 12
In short, A yaya, Nani,Persoanl Assistant,A cook,A maid etc...:) but that's the most fulfilling and rewarding role they said...Anyway i have his atm, and credit cards with me hahaha.
@jaiho2009 (39001)
• Philippines
20 Oct 12
Absolutely
• Portugal
20 Oct 12
i think what makes a guy melts is when we support them no matter what. even when they are not sure if they made the right decision. and we say we be there even if it was a wrong one^^ guys dont usually feel emotional like us girls. so for me when a guy shows his emotions is because you really could touch his heart. when i have a boyfriend i will always try to show him how much i love him everyday^^
• Philippines
20 Oct 12
wow so sweet...but its true, they are less emotional and less outspoken compared to us that's why they're really need us to support them in anyway we can.
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• Portugal
20 Oct 12
yes^^ even they loves us they usually cant say their feelings as easy as us^^ i just wish soon i can have a good boyfriend that loves me ^^ we all need love so our life will be happier right?^^ and you are right they need us to support them. so they will feel more strong. guys are sensitive like us even though they dont show it
@blue65packer (11835)
• United States
21 Oct 12
I have had few men who could care about my feelings and trying to understand me! My last two relationships were really bad! One guy could not figure out my personality,didn't try hard at all the understand me and treated me like crap! The last guy was drunk,alot and had more issues then I did! That didn't last long! This is one of the reasons I don't date anymore! If you don't understand me and don't even try to screw you! There is no way I will try to understand you! Men aren't worth the time! There are other reasons but I won't get into that.
• Philippines
21 Oct 12
Oh sad to hear that, but i just hope and wish someday you will find the right guy for you,,,,and if it 's yours, its gonna be yours.
• United States
20 Oct 12
Hi Alihnicole69, I agree it takes two to tango. It has to be a two way street. It can't be just the woman making all the moves, dressing up and saying sweet nothings in his ear. It must be reciprocated. Here is an example of what my daughter and husband does. He works 14 hours a day, so he is tired when he gets home. Sometimes he is too tired to even eat. When he comes home she meets him at the door and gives him a hug and asks him how is day was. Sometimes he answers "I'm tired lovey"... He can't even talk about his day. He drags himself to the recliner and lays back. She takes off his work boots/shoes.. those tie up shoes that go up over your ankle. She takes off his socks and rubs his feet for him because his feet hurt. She or I will fix whatever he wants to eat. Sometimes it's just a couple of pot pies or a can of ravioli, or a hamburger. She calls him to the table to eat, and then he goes to change out of his work clothes. She takes his clothes and puts them in the wash and hangs them up when they are dried. She makes sure that her 'work' is done... vacuuming and stuff while he is at work and devotes her time with spending time with her husband. They might just watch a football game on a sports channel or they might watch a movie. The point is that they are together. He devotes his time to her when he is off. They can't always afford to go to a movie, but they try to make a little date once a week.. maybe to just a dollar movie and a trip to Sonics for something to eat before they go to the movie. They have been married 12 years, and it hasn't always been smooth rolling, but they learned each other and are crazy about each other.
• Philippines
21 Oct 12
What a lovely story of a husband and wife and that is the reality. Time bonding really counts a lot, no matter what you do where you go and what you eat, it doesn't matter how much pennies you have-what important is how you spend each moment with each other. Thank you for that sharing.
@lynboobsy11 (11346)
• Philippines
20 Oct 12
Men can easily be melt in such many ways specially if they feel that they are important to us and we pamper them. That's why many men can easily fall to others when their partners forgot to do things that their men needs.
• Philippines
20 Oct 12
Men not just looking for wife alone,but someone whom they can be with themselves too,someone whom they can treat as their friend too,whom they can trust and entrust everything.
@Raine38 (9196)
• United States
20 Oct 12
I remember those very words from my husband"...makes me melt..." When I asked him what he means, he said when he messed up with our plans while he and I were driving to Tagaytay to meet his colleagues who are also here for RnR, he saw me getting angry and I would look at him with a frown while I was placing calls and writing some things on my planner. Then after I am done and I called his name, he turns to me feeling bad about the whole thing and expecting some scolding from me. But when I smiled at him, he said it melts his heart. So I guess they really appreciate when things get tough and instead of blaming them and nagging them, we address the problem first and support them to fix it. We can discuss it later on to avoid it from happening again but not after we have shown them that we are with them all the way.
• Philippines
20 Oct 12
Hi Raine, Nice one,thanks for sharing this and i've learned something from it,sometimes we did'nt even noticed ourselves being a nagger after getting things unexpectedly and worst putting the blames on our husband,being unfair to them by getting them affected of how we react and say things in inappopriate manners...its just a matter of "SS" be Silent and Smile.
@Raine38 (9196)
• United States
20 Oct 12
I remember those very words from my husband"...makes me melt..." When I asked him what he means, he said when he messed up with our plans while he and I were driving to Tagaytay to meet his colleagues who are also here for RnR, he saw me getting angry and I would look at him with a frown while I was placing calls and writing some things on my planner. Then after I am done and I called his name, he turns to me feeling bad about the whole thing and expecting some scolding from me. But when I smiled at him, he said it melts his heart. So I guess they really appreciate when things get tough and instead of blaming them and nagging them, we address the problem first and support them to fix it. We can discuss it later on to avoid it from happening again but not after we have shown them that we are with them all the way.