Showing effort is not always showing love?

@kokomo (1867)
Philippines
October 20, 2012 11:33pm CST
Because loving someone is not an effort, it's a matter of sharing what you really feel without getting tired. Do you believe on this my dear fellow Mylotters? Have a nice day ;-)
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@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
21 Oct 12
Isn't it that you make an effort to show your love to your partner? Otherwise, you are just waiting for each other to let things happen. You need to work on your relationship. Your love needs to grow. And for that to happen, you need to do something about it.
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@dainy1313 (2370)
• Leon, Mexico
28 Oct 12
Hello kokomo, hi jenny I think love needs positive and intelligente effort to be nourished. My husband and I are in a church ministry since 15 years ago. My parents got divorced after 29 of marriage. I think that the positive effort is like the pot with good soil where love can grow. DonĀ“t you think so? Blessings kokomo and jenny... dainy
@lmpalco (89)
• Philippines
21 Oct 12
Being in love takes alot of effort and sacrifices. It's up to the one in love if they will count what they do. Effort and sacrifice comes with love, person will not spend time and effort to the one they dont love. One important thing is they should be happy with what they're doing and never ever count your effort,comes naturally when your inlove.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
21 Oct 12
Because true love must grow voluntarily and but force- so it must be effortless. Although in reality, love is not all about what we feel, but how we make our loved ones feel that we love them by showing it. Sometimes love without action is not enough to make someone stay.
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@natliegleb (5175)
• India
21 Oct 12
correct,its not same always its like showing care,but not really understanding them,it has a lot of value
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@Jenith (1381)
• Philippines
21 Oct 12
Showing effort is not always showing love but for you to be love more you must show some efforts. You did not realize these efforts because it's freely given to someone you love and that's the magic of love. Happy Sunday!
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@bembzee (768)
• Philippines
21 Oct 12
I guess in some way yes kokomo. But in some point i think it may look like a compliance to a responsibilities. It is all up on how we look at the issue. It can relay a positive message or negative views.
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@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
10 Nov 12
hi, hmm,,that is true,because it maybe happened to me when i have a lived in partner last two years ago,but i have learned so much of that,and always telling to my self that if someone shows an effort does it mean he love me,i am now careful in this kind of situation in my life to avoid broken hearted.
• Philippines
21 Oct 12
I agree, though for me, you always have to make and show effort, like you have to make an effort to see and spend time with your loved ones especially if you two are living far from each other.