O.M.G he's a GAY!
@chubbychubchub (90)
Philippines
October 21, 2012 2:59am CST
I got a crush on my classmate since grade 4 (well not only me we can say that he's a school fantasy) then after we graduated elementary. he move to a diff school but we never lost communication, we still go to there house whenever there's an occasion. Everything is fine until early 2nd year in college but after that i don't know what happened suddenly we lost our contacts.
Then before I graduated in college i was browsing the friendster and i saw his account. I'm so happy to see that his also has a friendster (facebook is not well known back then). so i add him and waited for the confirmation.
after a day or two when i open again my friendster account i saw my friend request for him was confirmed. So I browse his profile. i was looking at his pics (while smiling) and unexpectedly I saw a photo of him holding a bouquet of flowers, I was curious so i decided to read the comments and i discovered that his friends called him "QUEENIE BEE and GIRL!!". well i still doesnt absorb it after so i look for another comments and photos and they all call him "GIRL" and the most shocking thing at I discovered was "HE GOT A BOYFRIEND!!" because one of his friend ask him "if the bouquet he was holding was a gift from his lover for their anniversary" and he confirm it was.
I still can't believe it until this day that he's already a HOMOSEXUAL.. im not against homosexuals but to think that he's my greatest crush; I'm having a hard time accepting it..
2 people like this
9 responses
@sjvenden27 (1840)
• United States
22 Oct 12
I had someone that I had a crush on in middle school and then we didnt talk for many years.. Then through facebook I found him again just to see what he was up too... And he is the same way.. I know it will be hard to accept that he is that way.. It may not be the right way or what not.. But how I was able to get over it was looked at him like he was married long before I talked to him again.. Yes it may be a bit twisted but it made it a little lazy shocking to say the least.. I have no problem with someone that is homosexual or anything like that.. I guess it just the fact its a way to make that person untouchable... It will hurt for awhile but it will fade away..
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
21 Oct 12
Oh well, he is a friend still. Does it matter if he is gay or not? If he was your boyfriend it would, but since he isnt. As long as he is happy with his life. Have a great sunday there.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
21 Oct 12
Oh girl, I knew it -hahaha.
Anyway, I have many gay friends and I like their company.
They are happy and gay aint?
The best thing is, he was never your boyfriend, that would be worse then 
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
21 Oct 12
hi chub,
You remind me of my ex suitor in elementary days girls are really into him during that time he is not just good looking but he is genius one he even courted me but I think I am too young to be in a relationship that time I was in first year college when we see each other again and he is GAY cause the way he talks and he even confirmed it I am not against them I have a gay friends but it made me laugh every time I remember that he was a suitor before but he is GAY now. I don't know what will be the reaction of some girl who curse me because of him 
happy mylotting
happy mylotting
@kokomo (1867)
• Philippines
21 Oct 12
You should accept that every person evolves when they realized what really would make them happy.And your crush already found his happiness through that transformation.Besides, he was just your crush and you never got the chance to be his girlfriend, what more if it was the case? Then it will be more painful with your part. Try to be happy for him and move on. The right guy for you is on his way already .
@donsky14 (5947)
• Philippines
21 Oct 12
That's just so sad chubbychubchub , I would feel really shock as well if he was my biggest crush.
So I guess he never really showed any signs that his gay when you guys are still hanging out, base from your reaction. I guess that's just how life is...it can be really surprising.
So I guess he never really showed any signs that his gay when you guys are still hanging out, base from your reaction. I guess that's just how life is...it can be really surprising.
@kenshin2143 (1880)
• Philippines
21 Oct 12
As what you have mentioned about him that he is a school fantasy, I can assume that he is that good looking. Some says that guys are very prone in idolizing themselves and results to having a crush on themselves. Maybe such reason leads him to be a gay.
@Raine38 (12257)
• United States
21 Oct 12
I remember back in college I also had this crush on one of my classmates in Econ. I have 2 close friends there and we always spend time together hanging out in the campus cafetria after class just to chill. He would join us. He was friendly actually and he knows a lot of people, he's pretty popular. THen one time, we were hanging out in the study area on our floor killing time and our conversation went to crushes. They teased me because they know I have a crush on him, when our guy friend asked again who's the guy. When I told him, they laughed. THey said he's gay. At first I was in denial but it totally bugged me. Then I began lookig out for signs and...they are so right! I was so ashamed, how could I missed it? But after that, I have moved on and now it is just another funny experience that I filed away.
