What is the best way to get a partner?

@dandan07 (1908)
China
October 26, 2012 8:03am CST
I now try my best to get a boyfriend. But as have no experience, I find that I can not make it. As a girl, I am not very pretty, but I think I really owns the quality to be a good partner, good at cooking, hard-working and firendly. To solve the problem, I have asked many people for help. Some of them told me that I should not act as so independent and smart. Is it true?
5 responses
@Harold_ks (1674)
26 Oct 12
Don't look for it, it would come at the right time. Since you have good qualities, then don't worry, you will meet him. Just focus on your career and take care of yourself. Good day!
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@dandan07 (1908)
• China
26 Oct 12
Thank you very much. I think I have enough time to wait the right guys come, but all of my family can not wait for a long time. They think I should get married soon.
@Harold_ks (1674)
26 Oct 12
If you think you are getting older then maybe attending gatherings, occasions, seminars may help. You will meet lots of guys there which might include your Mr. Right. Or you can also try online and join social networking sites. But don't rush, in God's time, you will meet him.
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@GemmaR (8527)
26 Oct 12
I was trying to get a partner for a long time when I was younger, and I think that one of the main things that puts people off getting in a relationship with you is if it seems as though you're desperate to get with somebody, if it doesn't even matter who that somebody might be. As soon as I "gave up" looking I met somebody and I was friends with him at first and then it gradually turned into something more. I am happy with him four years later so I think that it works for a lot of people, you just have to be patient.
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• China
26 Oct 12
Here are my advice as follows: Firstly,you should be sincere to others,for any feelings are based on it.Only in this way ,can you make truly friends.And among the truly friends,many things perishing can be ignored.Do you think?
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@estremms (324)
• Philippines
26 Oct 12
You should go out often, join organizations, parties, etc. Let yourself be seen, maybe you're just coop up inside your house and don't mingle much that's why you haven't met someone yet. There are a lot of independent and smart women out there who have boyfriends. Nothing wrong with being independent and smart.
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@kokomo (1868)
• Philippines
26 Oct 12
I think you should wait for the right guy who is so very dedicated to show his love for you and not to look for someone.You are a lady and you deserve someone who will makes you happy and to see your worth and right as a lady. Do not rush because all of us has a destiny. Only time can tell.If that time comes, just be yourself.
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