i hate to play outside and go back home at midnight

China
October 28, 2012 11:02am CST
sometimes the friend will invite us to go out for lunch or sing or dance.we can not to reject them.but i do not like such activities,because everytime they will drink much,i don't like this custom.and they also will play until midnight or the next morning,maybe i get older,i felt such condition is so boring.i prefer that they can organize other healthy activity,such as swimming or go hiking or go climbing.this can not only promote our relationship between each other,can also make us having a strong body.what wonderful idea.but they don't like.why??
4 responses
@mengze (3)
• China
15 Nov 12
i donĀ“t like that traditions too. maybe you can ask your friends to do something that you said above. or you can be the inifiater or the organizer next time, to invite your friends to climb mountion , to play badmition and forth.
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
28 Oct 12
I have some friends who loves drinking and singing until midnight specially during weekends sometimes i joined them because i know that's their way on relieved their stress from work and family. I know it's not healthy but that's was already part of their lifestyle and hard to make them change. Good thing for you because you can still want to have a healthy lifestyle than them.
@Sir_bobby88 (8231)
• Singapore
28 Oct 12
Well i can say is friend that don't care about how you feel is not really call friends. Most so called friends come with a intention of using you some way or the other . There are true friends that will reach out to you whenever you need them and they would really care for you. So if you do not like to go outside and play why not just stay at home and invite some friends over to play some games or online games.
@natliegleb (5175)
• India
28 Oct 12
that might be frustrating at times after doing so much work our body aches and feels so tired,it will get adapted