if someone was after you bf/gf, would you assault him/her?
By Nnaemeka
@mydanods (6513)
Nigeria
October 29, 2012 3:16pm CST
if you learn that a woman is after your man, or a man is after your girl, would you assault that individual if you were afraid this rival might succeed? what if you affront him/her and they say the relationship is just cordial, that they are just friends but you trust the source of the story? lost!
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6 responses
@ally12 (1202)
• Philippines
31 Oct 12
I only have one rule when it comes to this, I dont care if whoever or how many women will get attracted to my man as long as he is not playing with their games I wont mind them and I would just feel flattered and if they will harass my husband I will give them the proper action, but if the case is that my man is giving in with their flirting then I dont see any sense at all of fighting for him.
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@mydanods (6513)
• Nigeria
31 Oct 12
i feel short of marking this as "best response..." because i have other candidates. but your courage is awesome and exemplary. if your man allows the flirting to find root in him, then he does not deserve you; i agree. let them flirt or seek his attention. it shows you did not make a mistake in choosing a good man.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
29 Oct 12
I will never left a finger to those kind of person.
I won't go down to their level either.
Those kind of people are insecure and they can't find a partner of their own.
Well, it's just my opinion.
Why should I step down to their level and lose myself respect :xx
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
30 Oct 12
If my boyfriend loves me faithfully- no one can ever take him away from me.
No matter how any girl/s would flirt or do something to catch his attention- he will never betray me.
So, why should I fight with any girl-let those girls do their things- they can flirt or even seduce my boyfriend as long as the girl won't hurt me physically- let her do what she wants.
I rely my faith on my boyfriend's faithfulness and honesty in our relationship and- not into fighting.
@GemmaR (8517)
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30 Oct 12
I think that this would very much depend on whether you trusted your partner or not. If you knew that you didn't, then I think that things could be quite complicated because of the fact that you wouldn't be able to tell whether they would go ahead and get with somebody else or not. However, if you knew that the only thing that you would have to do would be to talk to them and they would stop talking to the person then I do think that you would be able to trust them, and that would be something that would be absolutely amazing for you.
@mydanods (6513)
• Nigeria
30 Oct 12
then it's either one of the trusts"
1. you trust that your bf is cheating on you
2. or you trust that his word is true, he is not cheating on you. it's just some made up story.
i'd be careful if placing my eggs in the trust basket. yet, without trust, how can a relationship work? it's so confusing.
@zoey7879 (3092)
• Quincy, Illinois
29 Oct 12
I don't worry about my husband leaving me for another woman - And believe me, plenty have tried to catch his attention!
There is one chick he was friend with, however, that wanted him for herself.. And she was very, very negative and even mentally abusive in their friendship. It was causing stress in the relationship between my husband and I... so I eventually put my foot down. I made him choose between our relationship or his friendship that was so negative that most of his other friends were angry about it.
I won ;0)
I know that I will never have to "fight" for my man.
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
29 Oct 12
No, thats what police are for. Go to police station and make a report. let them take care of it.
@zoey7879 (3092)
• Quincy, Illinois
29 Oct 12
I think you misunderstood the post ;)
The poster was asking that if someone tried to romantically steal your boyfriend or girlfriend, would you start a fist fight with that person.
