When other family shout on you for no reason

@sriroshan (2586)
India
November 1, 2012 10:56am CST
If any of your family member shout on you unnecessary saying that you have made the mistake, it is always better to listen what he/she is saying and why he/she is shouting on you. Keep yourself cool instead of shouting back to him/her. Once you find out the reason for the same, tell it to that person so that next time he/she will not shout on you unnecessary.
5 responses
@Raine38 (9032)
• United States
2 Nov 12
My immediate family never have to resort to shouting. But I have to admit that some of our relatives do just that. And I have to agree with you that the best way to handle it is not to shout back. It will just agitate the situation and you will just feel bad after. Calm, assertive and collected is the way to go. Besides, my granma used to say that yelling when you can just speak in a normal way is a sign of bad manners. One can be taken seriously and be listened to without shouting if he or she speaks something worthy to listen to. But if a person talks nothing but crap, then yell or not yell, nobody will be willing to listen a word.
@sriroshan (2586)
• India
2 Nov 12
Calm down, remain cool and try to avoid giving back specially when other shout unnecessarily having no reason for the same. It is really bad when you too shout back since it may lead to fight also. Thanks for sharing your views.
@leateagee (3667)
• China
2 Nov 12
In my family, almost all the members have a loud voice. Imagine if the'll shout at each other. My mom has never shouted at me. If there is anything that needs my attention, she approaches me and we talk about it.
@sriroshan (2586)
• India
2 Nov 12
I am not saying every one and in every family it's so happen. But in some family it does happen What I feel if everybody remain cool then everything will work fine.
@NailTech (6890)
• United States
1 Nov 12
They shouldn't have to shout anything to get their point across, it is even better if they talk to you in a calm manner and everyone doesn't get upset that way. Therefore there isn't any kind of shouting match. If someone is being a total jerk and making you stressed out enough to shout then try to keep yourself calm. I have only shouted when at my wit's end with a few, something really ridiculous or uncalled for is said or done then it makes me angry enough to shout. I shout the least though in my family. I have found out that shouting only means that they are guilty of something theirselves or have something to hide from you, basically speaking. Not always but most of the time.
@sriroshan (2586)
• India
1 Nov 12
Under such situation best way will be remain quite and walk away from such people. Keep in mind when there is a fire if you add gasoline/petrol to it there will be more fire and when you pour the water on the fire, it will diminished or extinguish. So be cool like water
@wongchoiyee (7175)
• Malaysia
1 Nov 12
I have experience my father and brother shouted at me, I asked what is the mistake they did not say anything, I hated them, disrespect me.
@sriroshan (2586)
• India
1 Nov 12
I am sure not you almost every one in their life must have experienced such things. What to do? Can't shout back but has to remain quite like you.
@ungu89 (2001)
• Malaysia
2 Nov 12
never experience like this i think, whenever i make any mistake,they just come and talk not shout from far away