Sometimes love is also a waste

Yes, you are right. We should choose the one we should love and who will receive our love. It is better to love a person who will love us back then someone who just ignores our love.

Not all relation ship have good ending in last. If we have good relationship we have to keep it forever. If we have bad relation ship, It look like just waste our time that like you said. It will be so happy if we can find some one that truthfully love us with their bottom heart

I don't think so that love is a kind of waste. We feel something special to people we love and whatever the outcome. Our love should not be a waste because it's a dedication for us to live that fall in the time we experience loneliness.

I disagree, for if love is a waste of time for those that do not give it back, then why does God Love all not just those that love him? Unconditional Love... has no boundraries

Love is and can be a complicated mess.. There are different levels or passion that you have for different relationships.. Loving someone as your counterpart versus your family.. Love can feel like a waste of life.. But those days months or years teach us lessons of the heart.. Some mistakes we make we contiune to make and others we learn from.. The point is our history of love does not determine our future of love.. Just a mental book that we can refer back to when the time is right..

Love is never a waste: feeling unconditional love and giving it away freely is a blessing. What's the point in our selfish and immature desire to be loved in return? I guess you figure the case when you are in love with someone who doesn't care about you? Even then it's great to love because the feeling of spreading it generously around can't be compared to other feelings. I think that if we don't learn how to love unconditionally our life will turn to waste.

I do not think that love given to anyone, even if it did not flourish or last is ever wasted. we are humans, we are capable of love without having love in return. i believe that love is given and it is around here in the world where we live in. it can be a waste of time.. but never a waste of life because we sure learn and experience something out of that love.

You have the good point. Love makes us waste if you are not serious. If you have the love and money, It will be a good blending. Love can make us money. Well, we do not really waste of time there and nothing to earn.

I think, wasting of love is common thing. Because we dont know that is our love opposite ? We try to be a friendship, then maybe it's become relationship :)Whatever we never waste to our life with falling in love. If we be failed, we gain a lot of experiences.

Sometimes we could not control our affection to a certain person even if we know that they could not love us back. That could be a waste of time as others may see it. But you who felt the love would think that it was enough for you to just love him afar. Stupid love? Yes! We might have been in that situation one time or another.

Love is different for all of us. Some fall in love in seconds, other sin days or months. I fell in love overnight. So I thought. i was married 11 years. Im divorced now. I had a great relationship the first 3-4 years. I have a great son fro it. But Im sure I got into marriage to fast. i really didnt know him well enough. Now a days people need to make sur e they know their partner 100% before they marry them. Have a great day there.

now Gretchen522 can i say you are full of ideas there? what if i get to 50 and my love resource is finished, what do i do? start tapping into hating? oh my, please do help me here, Gretchen522. i give of my love all the time. i have to be saving for the count meter soonest if you are right.

one of the feelings that god gave us is love, god loves every one, so love is not limited. I think it is not a waste of life as some one said. I feel love is like a strength, but of course if some one really don't want it we can't help.

I bring you this I thought, I hope you like it. Love is just the opportunity to taste and we give meaning to each of our steps, namely appreciate the beauty that gives us life and know how to choose people who want to join us on this jurney. Give love in abundance to those who deserve it and give slowly who have wronged us so they can change. love is just love and have to put in any situation.

You are definitely correct there my friend,that acquaintance first before your first motive should be provided,so that you could never be just wasting your time to those who does not deserve your love.You should should collect first,then select who should be given the correct attention for your love,as long as you could feel that person also loves you.

Love is something we do for those we love and those who appreciate our love to them, but not those who do not value it. Otherwise it is a waste of our life. Enjoy your love, friend.

Let me share one of my articles about this issue. Who are those victims of love, who are those losers in the battle of war of the hearts? No one knows that it could happen to you, to her, to him or me, but we must understand that love is like a battlefield sometimes. Someone must lose to give way for the winner, or else, the battle is not a battle when no one claims the victory. We can see the debris scattered everywhere, but we cannot retreat. Therefore, keep the will and carry on, never stop believing that one day, love will find a way. We are those survivors, who never felt we are outsiders of love. Fate will never close the door, stand still while there is no ending and never ask where do we go from here? Maybe next time played a little bit sure, because love is not always full of roses. Sometimes understanding got misunderstood and love comes stumbling down. Until we realized, ours is a broken down affair and the ending is so near. Only victims of love can survive with a heart as strong as steel. With a soul full of hope that love will pass by, love will give one more chance and one more try. Probably your heart have been to battle and your soul had been to war of hearts. You might have been a victim of love and you keep standing still. Remember that your destiny is never tied to anyone. When someone leaves and walks away from you, it does not mean the person is bad so let them him/her go. When someone left it means, their part in your life is over and a new episode has to come with new people to come along. Perhaps it also means, new battle to face so be ready, it might be another reason for your heart to become a victim of love.

I don't think it's a waste. If you choose a wrong partner, or love somebody who doesn't love you back, it actually is a good experience, and you learn from it... how to deal with rejection (in any field of our lives), what kind of people like you etc.

There are so many views regarding love. But its hard to attach logic with love. Love can sometimes be so illogical. So you may love someone who's not worth it but later on you find out that it's a waste of life.

If we are brave enough to love,strong enough to forgive,then we can achieve a fulfillment that no other living creature will ever konw.