How many time you have fallen in love in your life?

China
November 15, 2012 7:56pm CST
I have fallen in love for three times in my life. Fist in college life, I loved a boy, but no result. We missed. Then I met my ex boyfriend. He is nice person with good temper, but we live in two cities. The important thing is: I felt that I could not see me in his perspective. I do not know why, I just felt it. Maybe because he did not say, maybe because I was too sensitive. This relationship give me a lot of good memories, and deep impression. My heart was really hurt when things ended. But it just ended. Then I met my present husband. He is not so well educated, and he does not have good temper and makes me angry sometimes, but he cares my daily life a lot. Sometimes I think he is so MAN, sometimes I think he is a little boy:) I think I have been more mature after these experience. Thanks to them! How many times you have fallen in love in your life? Have you been hurt? What is your current state?
11 responses
@margies (128)
• Indonesia
16 Nov 12
I've fallen in love twice, first with the man who have a good personality and type of family man, he was so care with me and he loves his family too. But my parents not agree if i getting married with him because of his family background. With heavy heart , i must break with him and now when i heard he will getting married with another woman, my heart was so empty and sad, why it happens to me.... the second one, he is a mama child, he was selfish and always trust with prediction of paranormal. He always ask with the paranormal about our relationship, which is prediction is not right....so tired with the relationship, so the relation must end, and until now, try to move on and get a better person
• China
19 Nov 12
Wish you can get your Mr.right. The second boy seems to young to be married, and the first one, love needs a lot of courage to be together. Do not be too hurt, and bless him. Good luck to you!
@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
17 Nov 12
Just once have I truly been in love. There were other times that I'd thought I loved someone, but only because I was too young to understand what it meant and I was mixed up.
• United States
17 Nov 12
Oh sorry, I missed some of your questions! Have I been hurt? Sure, but then who hasn't? My current state? I've moved on. There is no one that I'm in love with, but I hope if such a thing does happen in the future the person will really mean it when they say they love me because I believe no one has ever loved me other than maybe my family, but um they don't count in this case.
• China
19 Nov 12
Thanks for sharing. You both loved each other? Did you get together? It seems hurts tend to leave deeper memories in our mind, hope you have recovered from it, and good luck to you!
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
17 Nov 12
Like a thousand times. Years ago I used to fall in love very easily, I know the guy was outhere, I don't know how but I've always known and took many risks and chances in my life. I don't regret, I've seen many unhappy married woman that just wanted to have a little more fun and promised I'd never go through that. I found the guy now.
• China
19 Nov 12
When you are young, you can have a lot of choice. If you grow older, you may want stable life with marriage, maybe. Thanks for sharing.
• Philippines
16 Nov 12
I think twice. My first love was back when I am still in college, that was when I met my childhood sweet heart thru text. At first I thought he was a relative but then as months pass by he discover that we are not related to each other so that's the time he courted me and I think after a month or so we became lovers. But I think we are not meant for each other because we got separated after two years. And we didn't got a chance to talk about it and make some closure. My second was my current hubby, we became friends first at the office, my lunch time buddy at first but when time goes by we became friends even after office hours and even before going to work. Until we finally feel that we have something in common and we just find ourselves loving each other. Up until now we are holding on for 2 years and hopefully he will be my last lover for life ^_^ (but then we are not married yet because of some reason)
• Philippines
20 Nov 12
Boyfriend/ Girlfriend are allowed in the office, but when you both decided to get married that's the time one of you will be forced to have a resignation ^_^ Why on your company they don't allow to have boyfriend/girlfriend?
• China
19 Nov 12
You are lucky girl. Is there any problem to have a workmate as a boyfriend? Does your company allow it? But true love break anything! Good luck to you!
@hlfbldmom (743)
• Philippines
16 Nov 12
I have fallen in love 4 times and get hurt 3 times. ..My first was when I start working We've been together for 2 years but our relationship was on and off because of his ex gf's.He is nice, loving, he even cleaned my apartment and do my laundry but I don't want so much hassle with his exes so I decided to broke up with him. Then I meet my 2nd bf he is generous but I caught him going out for a date with someone else. Been together for a year and then broke up. My 3rd bf is my family's favorite. He is so closed to my family He can even stay with my family without me. But we didn't work out because He don't trust anyone and he always doubt me even if I didn't do anything. I've been so hurt before that I don't even want to love anymore. But I meet my present BF now and he makes me happy, he is always there for me. He loves me and our relationship is getting stronger now that we are having a baby soon. Thank you for Sharing!
• China
16 Nov 12
Wow, you are having a baby soon, congratulations! It seems your third boyfriend is kind of unconfident, so he did not trust you. But any way, you are happy now. Wish you good luck all the time!
• Philippines
16 Nov 12
Thank you mickey2win!. He don't trust anyone because of what her ex and brother did to him they betrayed him so maybe that's the reason. It is hard to deal with someone who don't trust anyone but his doubts. But I am happy now!. I am meant to be with my present boyfriend.
• Philippines
17 Nov 12
I have fallen inlove 2 times,first in college he is a gentleman caring man,but we broke up because we dont have time to each other thats why,2nd is i am working that time,i met him in our office,he is an educated man and very humble,he always there for me and i loved him,but we broke up cause i found out that he is already married,i dont want to be a mistress,,and now im single im not ready to fall inlove again..
• China
19 Nov 12
Wow, It seems you are a girl with story, although this story happens everyday everywhere you have make the right choice to leave that married man, he is to be blamed do not be desperate about love, you will got the mr.right! Thanks for sharing.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
14 Feb 13
I have been through relationships and I can say that I have been really in love four times. All those times, I felt that I really made myself involved with the relationship and have held on to it.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
22 Nov 12
I have been in 4 serious relationships. Yes, I have been hurt a lot of times because every time I fall in love, I gave my all and nothing was left for me. It is sad to think that after giving all you've got, still you could not be together. But that is all in the past. I am now married for 17 years.
• Valdosta, Georgia
15 Feb 13
I have fallen in love two times in my life. I think it was a learning experience for me so I am grateful for it even though one of the times I was heart broken. The first one, I have no idea why I was in love with him. He was a jerk, plain and simple. He treated me good to my face but he was constantly cheating on me... He was a waste of a person in my opinion. He sweet talked me so I stayed with him like an idiot for a while until I met my husband, then I broke it off... The second time I fell in love was with my husband. He is a totally different man and he is the one I am meant to be with. My first heart break was a good lesson learned of how I will never be treated again in my life. My husband is good to me. He is not very romantic which I am not crazy about but he shows his love for me in other ways. I am grateful to have him and I would be lost without him.
• Indonesia
11 Dec 12
I fell in love once, with my current boyfriend. He is my first love. But I like some of the men in my adolescence, but not in love with them.
• Vietnam
16 Nov 12
I have fallen in love for one time in my life. It's in college life. I have loved a girl. Until now, I still love her and she love me too. She's my present girlfriend.
• China
16 Nov 12
Wow, you are lucky to have a girl you love and she loves you too. Enjoy life together then!