i would like to talk to you

love  - relationship
Philippines
November 21, 2012 11:30pm CST
when we have problem about our partner we ask them i would like to talk to you well for me its better to talk and sort things out before it will become a big argument so i talk to my boyfriend and we sorted out the things about the plan holiday so i am happy, how about you guys you talk to your partners to settle things early? tell me whats your opinion about this..
8 responses
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
22 Nov 12
Good communication is the key for a lasting relationship. Unfortunately, I do not have that kind of openness towards my husband because he rarely hears me out. I do not if he just wouldn't want to hear me talking to him or he just don't want to hear what I want to say. So most of the time, I'd be talking to my close friends instead.
• Philippines
22 Nov 12
oh sorry to hear that, maybe start asking him to talk sometimes?
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
22 Nov 12
We talk about other things. But when it comes to talking about our relationship, he would start saying, "So, what about?, You're just crazy to think that way, or what you're saying is not worth my time". So, instead of starting a fight, I just shut up.
• Indonesia
22 Nov 12
so sorry to heas your story. I hope your husband will change his heart to you. And i hope he will said that "you are my wife, you are my friend for everything, i love you more than anything in the world, and let me to hear your story" have a nice day ^_^
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
28 Nov 12
Yes, just yesterday and he was so sweet about this dark things that were in my mind that I didn't think he'd understand and it always me see that I'm marrying the right person. Somehow in the past I always knew the guy I was with wasn't the right one, I don't know how, something in my guts told me that I had to wait, it was so right, I'll always trust my intuition and always did.
• Philippines
28 Nov 12
well their are people who are very good on judging, that's very good you have happy life now with the person you love
• Philippines
22 Nov 12
yes passion4fassion i also talk with my boyfriend regarding with our relationship problem but i am getting tired of discussing with him as in the end of our discussion i am always leave as the loser...i cant never win an arguement with him...he sisnt understand me even how well i explain it to him...i just dont know what to do atleast i tried to talk about the problems so we can sort things out
• Philippines
22 Nov 12
oh glad your doing the same i think its better to talk to your partner every now and then
@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
22 Nov 12
Yes, we talk a lot about anything and he wants it that way. He said, so that no one is left in dark. He is much mature than me and he wants to straigten things up before it escalate to something bigger. It is a must to talk things over. It is a must to discuss what you want and he wants and the expectations for the both.
• Philippines
22 Nov 12
i know that mavic we should seat for awhile and talk thanks for sharing
23 Nov 12
It is very hard for me to talk to anyone about my problems. I try and talk to my significant other but even with him it is hard for me no matter what it is.
• Philippines
23 Nov 12
sometimes even it hard we should try we never know what will happen until we try then will find out
• Australia
22 Nov 12
great question passion!!!!well being a marriage person,arguments is always there..yeap,the best things is to settle it early than to leave it until it becomes hell...
• Philippines
22 Nov 12
that's very true
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
22 Nov 12
Thanks a ton for sharing this discussion. Well yes many prefer to talk to their partners in order to clear away the misunderstandings and tensions. I think u are absolutely correct, before things take an ugly shape, we have to take the initiative and go ahead and make things clear and sort out the things and then only we can give our relationship a next shot. relationships are very sensitive and we have to handle it with care affection and love. What say?
• Philippines
22 Nov 12
i agree but their are some issue that its hard to settle sometimes even i want ti to get settle early it gets worst like about holiday yes i am happy but the things is he should talk to me before spending $5150 for a trip, i just want to know what hes plan i am hes partner, you getting my point?
• Indonesia
22 Nov 12
for me it is important to talk every day with our partner, but the relationship is not merely about talk each other. We have to "feel" each other too. sometimes word cannot express our feelling. There is a good song about this written by extreme title "more than word", listen to it and hopefully you enjoy it
• Australia
22 Nov 12
can i ask who sng that song please?i havn't heard tha song before,isn't its new version?