Oh and she's got a boyfriend
By csabaholcz
@csabaholcz (843)
Hungary
December 9, 2012 1:14pm CST
Hi all,
You know it happened so many times with me...
I met a girl, we got on well. She was flirting with me and so we decided to keep contact and mark each other on facebook.
I was like: Oh yeah what a nice girl and... AND than I accepted the friendship request and a great profile pics appears... she's kissing another guy.
Greeeeatt... man why? WHY? I feel like I was a joke for her... Really after a few minutes of chatting she grabbed my arm and were nice too.
Did I overreact it and she is simply "very friendly"?
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9 responses
@heaytheblogger (2876)
• Philippines
9 Dec 12
Since in the first place, it was all about a plain chat. i would definitely not conclude about it as a flirty interaction rather than it was just a friendly gesture because she wants to make friends on the internet. It's also good to know the person better by asking some further questions such as is she in a relationship, so that you can conclude whether she is hitting on you or just being nice about your conversation.
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@csabaholcz (843)
• Hungary
9 Dec 12
On the internet? no no It happened in realspace. She was touching me (checking my muscles :/ and so on, what I don't have)... it was actually not a "Can you tell me the time" than goodbye chat.
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@heaytheblogger (2876)
• Philippines
10 Dec 12
LOL, my apologies... probably that girl was sober (not really sure) or probably she is hitting on you despite that she has a boy friend...
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@csabaholcz (843)
• Hungary
10 Dec 12
Ask if she's got a boyfriend!? No that's impossible you can't complicated.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
12 Dec 12
Maybe she's just too friendly.
Most women are like that with all their friends- boy and girls.
So, there is nothing with her behavior- you just assume too much.
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
9 Dec 12
What a j... don't worry, it's her loss. Secure confident girls would never play you be sure of that, insecure and unhappy must to walk by guys and feel desired just so they know they are desired instead of walking to a mirror, learning to love what they see, doing some self dialogue to maintain their self esteem, and not to play with other people's feelings.
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@csabaholcz (843)
• Hungary
10 Dec 12
Oh yes that kind of girls who just hunt for attention. Terrible, I think another similar discussion's idea is in my mind I open it.
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
10 Dec 12
To jump at such a conclusion that to after chatting on internet is not correct. It is always better and advisable to cross check whether she was or she is in relationship with any other boy. But i think she just want to be friendly with you and she does not have anything beyond this in her mind. I may be wrong in this connection, but I have express my feeling after reading the way you have put your write up
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
12 Dec 12
If you have just known her recently, you need more time to know more about her. Coz it is hard to tell this early if she is a "player" or not. Might as well be careful of falling for her without knowing what ind of a person she is. You do not want to be in trouble, right?
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
10 Dec 12
I'm sorry that this happened to you. That is why people shouldn't flirt with others if they aren't available or aren't sincerely interested in the other person. It definitely sends mixed messages. I hope that you will be able to meet someone that you can have a good relationship with.
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
10 Dec 12
I've experienced kinda same thing. But not on chat or facebook. There's a guy who would flirt with me, tells me nice things and seems very interested in me. And after some time I would learn from other people that he has a girlfriend. That hurts. But good things is that I can pretend to ignore what he is to me. And pretend that I don;t mind knowing he has a girlfriend.
@skyandgrassplot (1497)
• China
10 Dec 12
That is very obviously,she get a boyfriend,kissing can be a symbol who has a boyfriend or girlfriend,and dear friend,pls let her go and get over her,you need to move on,this kind of girl do not deserve to chase,pls remember,next is best.
