My Father didn't enjoy life..

Philippines
December 10, 2012 9:21pm CST
I would say that my father did not enjoy his life just any other wanted to be...I think it's not fair to him after all his sacrifices and hindrances that he suffered to us there's no any success that he could saw it to his son's and daughter.I tried my best to be of good son to my parents. I never have had a chance of not giving them financial support if i have worked..But times really give me difficulties that I don't have work that i cannot support him when my he had some health problems..Times flew so fast he just died suddenly. It was so heart-wrenching..It sad to think I never gave him an abundant life...
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7 responses
@rotloi2 (321)
• Malaysia
17 Dec 12
move on my friend. Time does flew swiftly when you are not appreciating it . Came to know family was important too late and started to struggle to find the feeling again. started to see but when realising everybody has changed no longer it can be found. I have witness growth. It seem all the things we have done were past and memory eaten it . So, when your father know you are not good for him but it already past and he does not have the memory of you being not good. The memory existed was only you being good and only the good things he remembered about you .
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@j6face (67)
• Malaysia
20 Dec 12
i understand how you feel but always take comfort that what matters most for any parents is the love you showed while they are alive coz money doesn't give true happiness
• India
11 Dec 12
I am really sorry to read about your dad and that guilt which must be in your heart which you must be craving to dig it out. Honestly , you cant do anything now but what you could do is to make your life valuable hat your kids dont think that their father dint enjoy life either.
@BigMoney25 (1186)
• Philippines
11 Dec 12
keep your head up my brother, all you can do now is to pray for him and still be thankful to have a very kind father like him. I wish you all nothing but the best, I hope you'll heal fast and have a wonderful life.Goodluck
• India
11 Dec 12
Hi jcjounel. Well I am sorry for your father but do not get disheartened. It is true that you don't have an opportunity to serve him. But do not feel guilty. Do what your father did. Support your kids in all ways possible. I am pretty sure that it will make your father's soul pride. Anyways have a nice day... -=SuperShames=-
@choybel (5059)
• Philippines
11 Dec 12
I am very sorry to hear this. I feel for you. My father has made great sacrifices in his life for us, his children and I have planned to repay it someday. I just hope it won't be too late. Right now, the best gift I could offer is to make sue I finish my degree in college and get my license as soon as possible.
@betty1989 (752)
• China
11 Dec 12
At least you stay with your father. It is the biggest comfort for him. yes, we always try our best to give financial support for our parents. For my point of view, parents do not wan money, they just hope we can have a better life and do not them. Alway staying with them will make them satisfied. have a nice day.