What's your idea of a loser?

@Aja103654 (5658)
Philippines
December 12, 2012 8:33pm CST
Aww, just want to mess around and think about losers. It's better we know what a loser is like so we can avoid being one and assure ourselves that we are not one Here's my idea of a loser People who are weak willed. Dependent people. People who just go with the hype without really being honest with themselves. People who don't have their own opinions. People who are cowardly and afraid of getting hurt. People who make excuses all the time. People who blame others for their mistakes. People who don't have dreams. People who can't think for themselves. People who don't respect other people. Nasty people. Bitter people. Haters. People who feel good when they step on other people. People who find it necessary to bring people down to make themselves feel better or people with crab mentality. Jealous people. People who can't stand for their own beliefs. People who don't have guts. People who don't use their heads. People who are too aggressive. Stupid people. People who believe they are worth less. People with low self esteem. People who believes everything the media tells them. People who jump to conclusions. People who lose themselves in a relationship. People who don't respect their selves. Sorry but this is solely my own opinion: People who think Christian Grey is perfect. People who think Edward Cullen is perfect. People who make Bella Swan and Anastasia Steele their role model. People who backstab other people. People who are afraid of the truth. And People who are scared of Dec 21, 2012. hahahhahaha!!! Your turn!!
11 responses
@Lovegreen (376)
• Philippines
13 Dec 12
Aja you said everything already what more can I say ha ha
@Aja103654 (5658)
• Philippines
13 Dec 12
hahaha I really got carried away. But I'm sure you can think more ideas of a loser.
• Philippines
14 Dec 12
he doesn't have to leave he will be banned anyway, he was reported by Forever the Lamb?
@Aja103654 (5658)
• Philippines
15 Dec 12
I see, he should be. His actions are inappropriate!
@umabharti (3976)
• India
14 Dec 12
hi i am not total agreeing to your opinion regarding "loser". It can be people who are really good who dont know anything of this world or who are being loser because some one else is a gainer. The most smart and clever people who know the way to tackle the worldly things are the people most who gain, Loser can be a person who has less strength, knowledge and support. i can say only one thing in a game when one wins one has to be there to lose. So the loser is greater than a gainer because he is giving an opportunity for the gainer to gain something and he becoming a loser and suffering the loss.
@Aja103654 (5658)
• Philippines
15 Dec 12
I guess one is considered a loser if he continues to be a loser. The way I defined loser, it's not really about winning, it's about a person's attitude that would make him a loser. Thank you for the response. You are right, in every battle, there are losers but these are the technical losers. Being a loser can also help a person persevere to improve, that's the good thing about it.
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@umabharti (3976)
• India
17 Dec 12
no one can be a continuous loser, unless and until there is some thing that specifically makes that person to be a loser.It can be the evil eyes or evil doings of human who can cause a person to be a loser. In some or the other way or at a particular time a loser can also be a winner amongst so many losers, its only that we should recognize the win.
@sriroshan (2586)
• India
13 Dec 12
Hey I know what you are saying or I knew that or i know everything. You try to say something but you can complete what you want to say such people will say I know it. Such type of people are there in society and we cannot keep them away from us as we don't know who will be like that. Sometime we may say I know it (when we really knew it) but other person may think that we are just that type of person. So best way is to remain mum even if you know something about what other are saying of certain thing. There is no harm in listening again what other is saying oe best way to walk away from the discussion just pretending that you have to talk with someone on mobile.
@Aja103654 (5658)
• Philippines
14 Dec 12
Wise people are quite and good listeners hehe, we should go by that example. Hahah, I posted this discussion in another website and one person disliked it. I wonder if that person was a loser hahahaha or maybe that person dislikes losers, I don't know. Losers... in our society which is really influenced by media, it's depressing that they are affected like that. They need some guidance and a good role model, maybe they are not fortunate to meet one.
@sriroshan (2586)
• India
7 Jan 13
You know different people have the different ways of thinking about what they are and what they are not.
@choybel (5059)
• Philippines
13 Dec 12
That's pretty much everyone you mentioned there. Just kidding, but I'd say I like the "your own opinion" part.
@Aja103654 (5658)
• Philippines
14 Dec 12
Thank you choy! I couldn't help it! There is nothing perfect about those characters. The fact that people think they are perfect makes the characters abysmal!
• United States
13 Dec 12
My daughter is dating a loser and I hate the grown he walks on he used my daughter for every dime she had. when she worked she took care of his every freaking need. he never wants to work to take care of her. he beats her when he does not get shitt his way. he tells anyone who will listen all about her personal business. he put her naked pictures on facebook. he told her new friend on facebook that he would kill him so he left my daughter alone. he left my daughter for another girl once my daughter had no money to pay then rent for them. now she is working again and he wants her back. he is a loser.
@Aja103654 (5658)
• Philippines
14 Dec 12
Arrrgh!!! I haven't even met that guy and I already hate him. Why doesn't he take a one trip ticket to hell? That's clearly where he belongs, and I'm sure the devils will accommodate him. He's so sick. I can't believe your daughter put up with all of that! I think your daughter has low self worth for some reason. I really hope that she will realize and value herself more so that she wouldn't be with that man any more. Life is too precious for her to waste it on that man. That abusive man.
@nitinnair89 (2895)
• India
13 Dec 12
I agree with every single point you mentioned there.But what if a loser does not want to be loser anymore?Won't there be discrepancies?I mean everyone loses at one point of time.For eg i was afraid the first time i heard of Dec 21 but now i know the fact. Does it mean i'm still a loser?
@Aja103654 (5658)
• Philippines
13 Dec 12
If you think you are a loser, then you are. I believe that people who refuse to be losers and try their best are NOT losers. Those are the kind of people I like. You have a point there. There are times when an individual is a loser, but it's up to that person to stand up and redeem himself. I don't think you are a loser though. Remember, the only person you really have to prove yourself to... is yourself.
@silverfox09 (4727)
• United States
13 Dec 12
I think people who are sheep are losers , afraid to step out on their own belief , people who hate to see a good thing going for others , people who think money is everything , people who run away from their responsibility , people that always have a gloomy look on their face ( I cant stand those) , negative people , people with no sense of humor , people that are afraid to be happy , people who want to lead but are not good leaders , people who are clearly not in touch with time . On a positive note the world need everyone and that is why life is good because we are all different .
@Aja103654 (5658)
• Philippines
13 Dec 12
That's great silver! Thank you for those additions. I am actually guilty of many of those loser qualities but I'm trying to change. As long as there is balance and everyone is helping each other out, I think the world would be so much better!
@ltpotter (177)
• United States
13 Dec 12
I think a loser is someone who gives up. They try once but once they think it's to hard they just stop trying. People who don't wanna try and do anything and have things handed to them. That's a loser.
@Aja103654 (5658)
• Philippines
13 Dec 12
yep! Thank you for those add ons! This ought to show those losers how much of loser they are! hehehehe
@julianmac (397)
• Malaysia
13 Dec 12
I guess you have mentioned above all the possible definitions of a loser. I think someone who doesn't have or even allow room for self-improvement is a big loser. Being selfish,lazy,dishonest and inability to face reality is a part of it. We need to keep losers at bay because as the saying goes," If you lay down with dogs, you will come up with fleas."
@Aja103654 (5658)
• Philippines
13 Dec 12
hahaah, those are good additions julian, thank you! So many losers in this world. And worst, they don't seek to improve themselves.
@edvc77 (2143)
• Philippines
13 Dec 12
I think people who are scared of Dec.21. :-) I think losers are those who cannot face the challenges of daily grinds who don't want to face any problems in life. People who are insecure of themselves too and envy other people. These are added to what you have mentioned. Have a nice day!
@Aja103654 (5658)
• Philippines
13 Dec 12
Thank you. I think the list is really long, ahha, so i need more people to add some on so we will really know what a loser is like.
@asliah (11148)
• Philippines
27 Jan 13
hi, for me a loser is a person who don't have any confident to his/her self or that person never give any confident in his/her self,not just a weak but a shy to be embarrassed,but we can not avoid this crab-mentality everywhere.and its hard to be with this kind of person.