December 13, 2012 6:52am CST
How would you know that your already a martyr person?Up to when are you willing to sacrifice in the name of friendship? As of the moment my mind is still shaking and confused what should I do. It's been a week since I brought my laptop in the office. I don't want to be called selfish so I shared my internet with them, What I mean is that I let them use my laptop with my internet If I'm doing something.However I realized some are already inconsiderate that time comes me the owner needs to wait what their doing before I can get it. Am I too much?Am I too good?I don't want to offend nor to make them feel bad.
• Boise, Idaho
13 Dec 12
I think people need to be checked at times. A respectful boundary should be set up and if people go against that it is their fault, not yours. Being nice and considerate of others is a very good thing to do but you don't want to let yourself be victimized.
14 Dec 12
Well, if you feel that you spend less time in using your own laptop then it means you are allowing them to have more time with it. I think that it is not being selfish if you would want to use it ASAP. I suggest that you don't bring your laptop to the office anymore so that there would never be any understanding among you and your friends.