world happiness very difficult to get

@indahfth (11161)
Indonesia
December 14, 2012 9:40am CST
I became like a fool, I do not know what to do. My heart ached, but I have to hold it. Apparently happiness that I expected, I can not get. Everything, it was just a dream. World Happiness very difficult for me to get. I decided would not pursue, world happiness again. I will be more closer to God, to gain afterlife happiness.
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13 responses
@nat1_ong (150)
• Guam
15 Dec 12
Don't rely on worldly, earthly and material happiness. It is inner peace where you will find most of your happiness. Well, it depends on you how will you acheive your happiness. Just remember dreams could become reality if you can really find a way to achieve it. Have it as a goal to have. Strive and work hard for it. Be a light to everyone. Share laughter, smiles, blessings to everyone and for sure afterlife happiness will be achieved.
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@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
18 Dec 12
I always do good. But, it did not allow me to feel happy. I'm resigned to it all. I submit my life to God.
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@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
19 Dec 12
I surrender everything to God.
@zearah (5381)
• Philippines
18 Dec 12
I agree to Nat.God is good.He wants mankind to live in earth with peace and happiness.Share laughters,joys, sorrows and loneliness be balance and have peace in mind. I admire Indah for her dedication, not so many women are submissive to the will of God.
@ungu89 (1999)
• Malaysia
14 Dec 12
don't be sad, there is will be happiness later. it just right now God test u on it, don't give up with your life, even u strive for a afterlife, but there is still life right now that u must go through with it. God know what is the best for u
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
15 Dec 12
I have no idea, whether there is happiness to me. I've lost hope. I give up with what happened to me.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
16 Dec 12
I did not dare to hope. Because, I fear disappointment. Indeed there are a lot of people, which is more sad than me. But, I hope they never lose hope.
@ungu89 (1999)
• Malaysia
15 Dec 12
i hope you find your happiness in future. there is other people are really suffer than us right now
@jpso138 (7851)
• Philippines
17 Dec 12
I think it is all up to you. The way you see things and the way you accept what is happening. I know there are so many factors that affect your feeling as we live each day. But for as long as there is life there is always hope. Take a deep breath and enjoy each moment of life. See the beauty of nature and listen to the sound of the sea. Surely the world is wonderful and you are part of it. Be happy, share and enjoy and from there happiness will come in your way.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
20 Dec 12
Yes. All up to me. But, the people around me, affecting my happiness.
@kheydia (882)
• Philippines
17 Dec 12
Allow me to quote this passage from a book; ' Happiness is the object and the design of our existence and it will be the end there off if we pursue the path that leads to it, and that path is gentleness, meekness, kindness, patience,longsuffering, charity and love..... We cannot please all people in ourlives with the things that we do, but atleast we tried and all the good things that we are doing considering that we did it wholeheartedly it is recorded in heaven, if others isn't happy for what we did, just be happy for what you did, don't mind them.... Do not think too much about yourself, look at the brighter side and be positive....
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
19 Dec 12
I always try to do positive things, but it all becomes negative, while the people around me, not like what I'm doing. I will not think about anything else. I will do everything that is allowed by God. And it will not do anything forbidden by God. And leave it to God.
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
14 Dec 12
Happiness will come with time. you will find it soon Im sure. If you are patient it will find you. have a great holiday season there.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
15 Dec 12
I really want, hope to get happiness is still there for me. I always wait for a miracle to come. As I am sure, happiness will come soon. Very quickly, I lost hope. And my hope for happiness, is also missing.
@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
16 Dec 12
Don't loss hope easily, Indah. As long you are willing to put in a positive effort in your life, you are surely able to change your life for the better...Good luck to you...
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
16 Dec 12
I was too tired to hope. All of my hope, ended in disappointment.
@blogandme (379)
• Indonesia
16 Dec 12
the happyness doesnt come to the people who give up with their life. Think it.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
19 Dec 12
Yes. You are right. But I was too tired. All hope, just hope, and a dream that did not materialize. I leave it all to God.
@celticeagle (159572)
• Boise, Idaho
14 Dec 12
Everyone has their own way of feeling good about themselves and being happy. If getting closer to God is your way of doing this then I would do so. I am sorry that happiness has been so hard for you to attain. How sad that is.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
17 Dec 12
I myself was confused, happiness like what I want, and how to achieve happiness. At first, I am sure I will achieve happiness, in new dwellings. But, it turns out my life, not much different
@savypat (20216)
• United States
14 Dec 12
You are looking outside yourself for happiness, to find this you must look inside. When you can find this on the inside you will find that you attract more and more of this energy in your life. Remember emotions are under your control and that no matter what the situation your reaction depends on your point of view. While I am writing this I am hearing a report of mass shooting in a grade school in the USA. Right now I identify with those people involved and can only feel sorrow, but I will continue to look at this situation and try to find even small joys to rejoice in. I am sure as time goes by we will hear of many heroic deeds done on behaf of the people saved. I just remind myself that there is never a way to truly judge the results of these terrible actions. Prayer for all is primary on my mind.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
16 Dec 12
I do not know in what way, so I can feel the real happiness. It may be true that my husband says, I am less grateful, so I will never be satisfied with what I have.
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
25 Jan 23
I feel the same way too. I stop pursuing world and decide to be closer with God. It relax me
@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
16 Dec 12
Indah, indeed happiness is very hard to be obtain. In fact, it is one of the hardest thing to have in our daily life. It seems that we are more often being in upset situation rather than in a happy state. The best way is, we must be happy with what situation that we are in. The more we force our self to have more happiness in life would cause more headache. Try pray more for the peaceful of our mind.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
19 Dec 12
All I can do now, is pray and surrender all to God.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
14 Dec 12
World happiness? Let's start it from ourselves then we can spread it to other people. Happiness is like a smile that is contagious. We smile at one person then that will be passed to one another. If we are not happy, people around us will not be happy as well. So, if we smile and we are happy, everyone around us will be happy-... if we keep it that way, we can say that the world we are living in a happy world.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
15 Dec 12
That way, only the superficial happiness for me. Happiness that will soon disappear, as I was in the house. Perhaps, I was too greedy, because I expect that too much. But, every time I was at home, it all seemed very sad, and there was no smile on my lips, but tears coming out of my eyes.
@momof3kids (1894)
• Singapore
14 Dec 12
I read the responses that you get. They are all very good. But your decision to gain afterlife happiness is the best. I am glad that God has made you feel this way. God is the only way that you will feel happy everyday. Everyday if you think how God has shined the sun on you, you will fell grateful for your lovely son and everybody that makes you happy. Soon the people who makes you sad will not matter because you have God in your heart. Take care and stay patient.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
18 Dec 12
Yes. As it was I wanted. I will no longer care with all that makes me sad. I will only care about my son, and my worship.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
27 Jan 13
hi, yes its true,its really hard to get and claim that happiness now a days,because more and many people are now greedy in power and money,so what will happen to us,poverty still exist and people who experiencing poverty never enjoy happiness.that is sad.